A Purple In The Middle Of Black
In the land of Otuko, Paul was not free with anybody, not like he was a bad person, he lives a good life but to associate and to take part in the Community service was always what he find uneasy, he lived his life in a way that does not add greatness to his Community.
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Everyone in the community were not happy about his way of life but Paul could never for once think about his reaction and how he behaves if it really good or not, life to him was what a good man could have, but was he good like he thought he was? No! what the villager's believe was that, Paul's life was not good at all, beside he lack the spirit of oneness, which is one of the best thing that encourage growth and development in a Community.
One-day, he King of the land of Otuko, send his words across the community, that all members of the community should appear in his palace tomorrow morning being the first day of the Eke market, and the Eke market day was on Friday, and on that day Paul was having a presentation to present in their organization, here was Friday, everyone were present in the king's palace but Paul was not there.
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Just as the villager's has always said, he gives no importance to Community building, after the meeting, the kind got report of a certain man in the community that does not show signs of being a member of the land, he had heard so many things said about Paul, not showing the spirit of oneness in him in the community, everyone conqur since that is how he lives his life, but was Paul a bad man? In their words, Paul was nothing of good to his Community, the king were not happy either about how he does things in the community and not being in one spirit with his Community members, a note were sent to him, they went to his residence and place it on his gate, when Paul comes back, he saw it that, the king demanded his presence, he make his self available in the king's palace.
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When he arrives at the palace, the King were very angry with what he has been hearing about him and how he disobey the Community ways of life, but never did he know whose Paul was really is? Paul looked at him and cry, he cried bitterly, it was somehow confusing to the King, as he asked, "why is he crying while he is talking to him", but Paul was crying because the king being his father could not even recognize him after all this while, he was deeply moved, that the king had given up on him so easily, after the tragic incident that occurred, he thought he and his mother had all die and not knowing he did survived, he could not control it anymore, as he Said, papa! Don't you recognize me anymore? The King thought paul wanted to explain how his father had passed away, when he went closed to him, he saw a mark on his shoulder and he shouted, where did you get this? Paul replied " is me your son" "Noah", the king was more than happier, for a longer time, he thought he had loose Noah and his mother in fire out break but here was Noah, he did survived and he came back to the land of Otuko.
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Noah became tired of the whole thing when he sees that his father, "the king had given up on him and his mother so easily, and be thinking they were all deed, he decided to keep his identify hidden for sometimes, and most at times, he refused entering the king's palace so as not to see his toys and other of his stuff, he uses to play with when he was young, but is they anything that stays hidden forever? NO! The truth did came out and he was known as the king's son, it was more than a memorable day in the land of Otuko, the king could now see his son, who he thought has died in a fire outbreak in the city but not knowing he survived, it was only his wife that fall victim of that incident, The land of Otuko celebrate Noah's (Paul) coming back, they welcome him in a way they should welcome their prince.
Paul grows up to be an enlighten man better this father " the king" he was a government worker because he had obtained a formal education, the king was more than proud for him.
The extent we see ourselves are the worth of ourselves
Having big dreams and aspirants are the things we should always put forth before ourselves, to make it in life, you must be determine, be consistent and do all that is required of you to do, seeing yourself on the apex is what would come out of you, if you are serious and take all that matters to you seriously, life is a result of believe, what you believed in is what is going to come out of you, nothing was made for nothing and there is nothing on earth that stands for nothing.
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Dreams are images we see either in our sleeps and in our thinking, dreams make us see reasons to lived, a man should not crave it life without having a dream to accomplished on a long run, to accomplish this long dreams of yours, you must first of all, set your self with short term goals Which you undergo on a daily basis and which served as a guide to you on accomplishing your long term goals. Your **worth** is your extent in life and what your accomplished on a daily basis which can be used to rank your accomplishments, but the Worth of ourselves can also be seen as what made up of you as a whole, it can also be seen as what ourselves can carry and what we can strongly has power to be mining at a certain point in time.
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During the Christmas season when i have a chat with my brother, he said to me, "gone are those days when i use to have little or minor aspirations" this was like a aspirations that gear me towards taking all that i have to do seriously, and do you know what? He said, they is no more time on him, that this year he is going to accomplish all that he has always ought to, he went further to enlightened me that, what you believed, work towards it and put your mind on and do all it required of you, is what is going to come to you. To me, his word was like an aeroplane which fly's up high and do not make a sound that disturb nature and it elements but it travels faster than any other transportation machine.
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At times what we as humans need isn't Money but motivation, because when you are motivated in any area you find yourself in, you would put in your best and when you put in your Best, money would come and you would have a lot more fun life as you wishes, but when money is given to you, you would be tired, weak and would not have any passion for anything, you would be thinking you have arrived while you are not, taking money you didn't work for more than necessary from friends and families would do to you more harm than good but when you work for your money, honestly, you would know how to spent it, you would be reliable in finance and you would also be knowledgeable in financing and investment purposes.
Know when to stop ?
Life is like a journey, no matter how far it Seems you must surely reached your destination, at times our destination may be far than what we expected it to be, but does that means we should stop going further? Yes! and No!, at this point the choice is yours, you can choose any choice depending on what you see would benefits you more and how far you want to go about it.
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While going on your journey, if you do not observed your fuel as you should do, it may finished and stop you on a high way or in a middle of nowhere, that is why as a traveler you have to check your fuel so well and know how long it can take you, so as not to end your journey in the middle of nowhere.
But nowadays no one really thought about why bus -stop were created on the road, just as it says "bus-top" it simple means you can take a rest and recheck your self before continuing on your journey, but does it really matter nowadays? No because no one tends to give attention to these signs anymore.
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The same thing applicable to relationship, when you find out that him / her has not been the way they were before, it is normal at first but taking time to get to the reasons is good and a good sense of humour but when you tries to understand and maybe after everything being said, they same thing still continues it is better to Mark a full-stop, knowing when to stop is good and a perfect timing in the life of a man.
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That is why business owners do not work without design, the called design in other words, blueprint, they also called it an abstract, some called it a guide but in a general term, it is known as a plan. A blueprint is well outlined, clear and understandable and the content will be stated on when, how and where to do it, this greatly stimulate that everything has time and it also has when to stop.
The three people that can make our dreams come true?
For our dreams to come true, we do not just Wake up and see ourselves at where we want to be, it takes hard-working, dedication and Commitment, dreams at times are motivations to oneself, it make us see reasons why we shouldn't give up on our daily challenges, i could remember my Father, referring to dreams as, "the potentially abilities of man to reached it peak".
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**Family**:
For a man to achieve his dreams, he must have the support of his family, because in everything we do in life, family always comes out first, doing something that is not in line with what our family may support us, would be somehow difficult to get to the peak, although, some people still choose a path, without the family support and they still reached their peak, in this vein, i think it is not worth trying, Because, they is what they called family blessings, when your path does not make your family happy, it only means you have failed your family as a family member, and you would not get the family blessings.
Since no one are in support of your actions.
**What happen when family support our dreams**
(a) They would tends to be giving assistance both in finances and ideas on how to go about your dreams.
(b) They would be praying for you to scale through as soon bas possible.
(c) They would believe in you and would also put their trust in you.
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**Friends**: We can not do without friends, friends are very essential in our life's as an individual, to me, i can not count names of all the people i called my friends since i was born, but whenever i come across each of them, i will be sure to remember them, and if i am changing form one residence to another, i will still make friends in one way or the other, that is to say that, we are friends and friends are we, i could still remember in the words of my Father, he make it known to me that, what we are in life is as a result of what our friends are, in another words, he means that, the friends we keep determine what we would be, "show me your friend and i would tell you what you are".
**How can friends help in accomplishing dreams**
To support his views, i will say that he is right, because if not for my friend Daniel who told me about, a certain online Job opportunity, i wouldn't have known about it, it was because of the fact that we are friends that warrant him to bring it to my notice.
That is to say that, for our achievement to be made, friends play a vital role when you keep good conducts and good relationship with good people.
**Government**: Government is not one man, and it can never be just one man, we are the government and the government is what it is today, because citizens are in support, then, the same way citizens support the Government, the Government should also render support to the citizens In other for their aims and objectives to be achieved.
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**How can Government make people dreams to come true**
Government can help the citizens dreams to come through by creation of employment opportunities and by safeguarding their lives and property, while the people in return would pay taxes and others compulsory levied to the government, to boost it duties to the people.
The feelings of inferiority must be stop?
Every star you see today was a charcoal yesterday, it is as a result of their continuous efforts that brought them to what they are today, no matter what you are going through, no matter where you are, it may be tough i know but do not give up, for what you see and feel can surely be achievable if only you believe and works in the path, that is why, in nursery School, teachers always asked the pupils "what would you become When you grow up"? and each of the children's will stands up and Perceived their different dreams and what they like to become, the reasons why you see teacher's do this from time to time, is to remind the children that their dreams is waiting for them and to motivate them to take their class activities more serious because at the end, they would become something great.
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That is why they always build them to become what they want to become in future, as a the child grows up, the child would Walk in the path to make it dreams a reality, nothing in this life is made of difficulties, everything is about the heart, how you see it and putting your mind on it, to make it a reality, never at time should one think they are goals in life that is difficult to make ends, no! It may only seems difficult but ones you Start digging and digging and digging the surface of it, they whole part would be open for you, allowing a particular incidents to crop you down because you see that you can not get there is really a big mistake, Take for instance, every man on Earth has the same brain, and not just the same brain, the color of our brains does not differs, be it An African, An American, European, Australian, North America and South American, we all have the same brain and all humans Brain has the same weight and functions.
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So, seeing From this point of view, it is clear and understood that, nothing that was achieve can be hard to achieve, the only thing here is that, it may take long for some people depending on their available resources at hand, but on the long run the result would be positive.
The secret behind the thought of inferiority and why it must be stop
Two days ago, i was going to that Market to buy some food items, and when it was time for me to leave the market, after i might have finished buying the things i needed to buy, i saw an Okada man (cyclist) i told him, i am going to Oron road at Obio Akpa, The cyclist told me he does not go far with his machine, if only i wanted to drop at the next junction, he would have conveyed me, i said is alright, i now called the next cyclist, the first one quickly turned his machine and asked me to sit, that he would try and take me there, while the second person i called wanted to drive me to my destination also, and now i was face with two cyclist, i do not know wether to sit on the first one or to consider the second person.
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I had to plead with the second man to forget about carrying me with my goods, since the first cyclist has agreed to take me to my destination but i never knew what i did was lighting more fire on a hot stove, the cyclist became angry, he said why did i even called him in the first place, i should have just let him go his way, i was so touched when i heard him says, it is because my machine is an old one? Since i am not riding new machine, is that the reason? i had to plead with him because that particular Words, it is because my machine is an old one sounds inferior in my ear, and i quickly understand his point of view and where he was heading to, i had to pay him the actual amount, just the same amount like he was driving me for peace to reign and since then, i still think about that incident.
What i do not like is finding out a man is having an inferior feelings, i believe in freedom and that anyone can change their life if only they could wake up and do the needful, and stop thinking that the world is turning against them, an inferior mind is a heart broken mind and a sad mind, we need to stop this feeling and we need to help those with the feeling of inferiority for a peaceful world at Large.
What does reconciliation means to you?
Does it sound right to you when you heard of reconciliation?
What must we do to better reconcile?
Can friends reconcile and still make a better relationship?
When and where can we better reconcile?
Reconciliation is so powerful up to the point that it can mends a broken heart, and put things right for a better relationship, when you know you have done wrong to someone it is better that you put on your clothes and shoes and Knock for reconciliation, getting down and pleading for forgiveness is not too bad but it shows a good sign of self esteem to oneself.
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**Does it sound right to you when you heard of reconciliation ?**
To reconcile and make peace is never a bad thing for one to do, when we reconcile we only do the right thing that we needed to do and to put things right in a better way that it should be, knowing you are wrong to anyone and refusing to make peace with that person is not good at all, we should try as much as possible to look the right way and set things right for ourselves.
**What must we do to better reconcile ?**
By this words reconciliation we means, amending mistakes and renewing of friendship and bonds which was better before but became bad due to disagreement, they are relationship which we go into and on a long run, it would brings a lot more of growth to ourselves, we also know that Humans are full of difference beliefs and aspirations then when we allowed this different beliefs of ours to control us instead of us being the one to controll them, that is where we began to have problem and do not see the right way.
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**Can friends reconcile and still make a better relationship ?**
No one is above mistakes, so at times we make mistakes to better understands ourselves and put things right the way it should be for the betterment of both parties, when one make mistakes and reconcile with themselves then begin anew it is noted that, during those period they stayed on dispute both parties have learnt their lessons and if you asked them by that time, they would tell how tired and worrisome it was for them.
So once they swallow their pride and reconcile, they can still make good Friends and their relationship can still be good as it were before, but In some aspects, it can even get better than before.
**My lessons on the thought of reconciliation and what i have been able to carved out ?**
I have learnt that, seeing people at their first glance can not really shows who they are and what they can do at a point in time, but when you relate with them as times goes on, their real nature would come up and you would know the real person in them.
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**When and where can we better reconcile ?**
One need to accept defeat when he sees that carrying his pride is not taking him to anywhere, the reasons most people do not accept to reconcile is because, they wouldn't want to be the first person to pick up a phone and make a call to that person which they are not in good terms with, but to me, does It really matter? If i noticed i have done wrong to you in anyway, i wouldn't delay to give you a call and apologize.
At times it doesn't even matter you are the one at fault, but it shows great courage to you that you are the one who sees everything as a mistake and want to make amends and put everything behind.
In my own view, i see apology as a sum total of honesty and regret of oneself, that means that the demerit is greater than the merit, then you do not want that to happen and tends to put the relationship on a higher side, reconciliation is never a bad thought and it would never be, making amends to disagreement that occur is awesome.
The Incident That Got Joshua Arrested
promise me you will open the gate for me when i came knocking, I would never slept off but would stay awake until when you come back, I forgot asking Joshua where he would be going at the late hours of the night.
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I although i thought about it but i never for once think that Joshua may have been involved in robbery, I have known him for more than two years and i have never for once seen him going around people who operate in the night time (arm robbers), little did i know, that he got himself involved in robbery gang due to going to the club and having been involved himself in drugs life all the times.
As i was sleeping, i feel some touch on me, tapping on my body and asking me to wake up, he said "I am about going out, ensure to open up the gate for me, when i come back, probably by 2:30 AM", his words sound so troublesome to me, but what can i do, he is my friend, i gave him my words to stay awake untill he comes back.
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I managed to stay up some hours and Joshua did not comes back as he instructed, and here was 2:30 AM in the morning, he could not still comes back, i became worried, i said to myself "if only i knew i would have asked him his way about, although i think he was going to club as he Normally does, but here was a different thing, Joshua got himself involved in den of thief, he relate with arms robbers overnight without him noticing the kind of people's he is relating with, in the morning i heard on radio of five men being caught last night, trying to break into a well secure apartment, while CCTV caught their faces, it was reported to the police, the police go after them, and they were caught.
Joshua and his gang were charged to court, the other four were sentence to two years in prison but Joshua was not sentence to prison because it case were different, it was found out that, he was forced to joined the gang as they lie to him and told him that, what they are doing is not illegal, rather, they are making supplies of their products, that they needs Joshua to drive them for the night, the only thing that save Joshua was because he had the video recorded, the video were play in court, it was true that He was not intentional to join the gang rather he was fool.
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Joshua were set free and since ever, no matter what he does and where he went to, i would first of all ask him, so as know if it is a nice place for him to be at the moment.
If it is not scary and big It is not a dream ?
Have you ever climbed up high when you look down you pity yourself?
Is dream something that we should be scared at time?
How do we know that the dream is worth chasing?
What is dream and how can we achieved them?
I remembered my father telling me that if it is not scary and big then it is not a dream, when i was eight years old, i use to think that when people said dreams they are referring to series of images that we see in our sleep, never did i know that, they word "dreams" has different meaning depending on where it is been place and how it is been used.
When i gained admission into Secondary school (high school) my classmates once ascertain on this concept of dreams, that is their different dreams, what they would like to become in life when they grows up, but i didn't know what they mean by dreams, i guess they were more smarter than me, i was a dull brain. Los..., because all of them speak of their different dreams, do you know what i said is mine?
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I told them i didn't had any dream last night, they all laugh at me, i was so embarrassed, it was only one of them who understands me and console me, he took me out from that spot to another position because he noticed i was ashamed so he choose we go to canteen, he bought me yogurt, you remember those kind of yogurt in sachet?, i was so happy to have found someone so amazing and good to me like him, at least all my classmates were not the Same, because despite the level of my ignorance he could still sees the good in me and he encourage me not to be sad.
**Have you ever climbed up high when you look down you pity yourself ?**
While being in the canteen and taken the refreshement (yogurt) he enlighten me that if i have ever climbed a tall tree before? i said yes, and he now let me know that dreams are like tall trees, they are always scary, that is the kind of dreams they were talking about, but i was still confused, because to me, his words were big grammar to my ear, bigger than my imagination, when he noticed the look on my face was still somehow, he now clear the air, he told me that what they mean was what i would like to become In future.
I smiled and i told him what i admired most is singing, i would love to become an artiste when i grows up, he shake me, touched my head and Said, remember me, your boy, when you achieve your dream.
To me, Micah, was my first teacher in Secondary school and not just a teacher but a teacher who teaches to my understanding.
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**Is dream something that we should be scared at time ?**
While the agenda was dreams, i was scared because to me some dreams are scary, i remember when i had a terrible dream about someone mistakenly taking my flashdrive away, i really felt bad in that dream and i was uneasy also, i was not myself until when he returned it to me.
When you make your dreams somewhat small, that means it is not a dream, dreams should be something bigger and bigger such that scares you at times, and tends to make you think it more and more if you would be able to achieve it, they were times i set my mind on music, like to become an artiste was what i chased and admired so much when i see that no one was with me anymore, motivating me to go on, i stop it and relent effort, but never did i know that, for people to motivate me, i must first of all keep on motivating myself.
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**How do we know that a particular dreams is worth chasing ?**
Dreams is worth chasing when it it such that when you look at yourself you took pity at yourself, if this is what you really go after, it must be big, bigger than what others has ever acquired in life, it must make you to be afraid when you try to remember what you are even after, dreams just as it got one scares in sleep must be such that make you scared when you think of it or chase after it.
I remember my nice telling his siblings that she will emerge the first African women to have a car built from scratch, but her siblings were only laughing at her, while i noticed It and i go close to her and tell her that i like her dreams and that she should count on me When she grows up, that i would help her sees her dreams come through, she was happy, i know that encouragement was what she needed and i relate it to her and make her feel special.
**What is dream and how can we achieved them ?**
To me, Dreams are thoughtful thoughts which are built inside our heart, dreams are us, it is the sum totality of ourselves, it is what we were design for, as our purpose on earth.
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**How can we achieved our dreams and make it attainable ?**
We can achieve our dreams through hardworking, commitment and preserverance, nothing comes easy, so for one to get to where he ever desires, a lot must be done, only words of the mouth can not give you what you want, rather as you are saying it out, you have to put it into practice also, work it out and you would achieved your dreams.
Just as they said, actions speak more louder than words.
Continuous efforts
if there is anything that i have ever learnt in this life that aids success is continuous efforts, it is the key banker to every success, it was really a thing of joy to see a friend, who never give up on his dreams after so many years of suffering in the street could now acquired his position, that is where he always wanted to be?
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right from the moment i saw him acquired this heights, his moves became a motivation for me, i began to realize that, at some point, some people needs to achieve a certain heights inorder to get others People motivated in their path and looking positive.
I know it took him so many years to get to where he is today, because even me at times, i was beginning to see it as a wasted years and efforts, tends to crop with the believe that, it is very difficult to get to that heights he was after but not knowing, the more you push, the more chances you get on elevating yourself, it may take long but still being on the grind, you will oneday speak to the mic with thousands watching you and admiring your steps and your voice.
Life is as a result of what you put in, Because, so would you get out with, when we feel hurt, we are always not ourselves right? and at the moment nothing we would ever do that would be good to hear of, because our heart is not right there at the moment and we will be having a difficult time expressing it out, answers only come to us when we asked questions and we should never overlooked what is important to us in our life.
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When it makes you happy, it simply means that is where you belong, they was a certain man in my community, who was offered a company job but he refused and said, he is happy with what he does, everyone were angry at him including his family members for not accepting the offer, but he said, what life would i lived if i am not happy with what i am doing, he was so proud to called himself an Hunter, it was just like a movie to everybody, that he could reject the offer and called himself an Hunter.
But no one ever understands, that Mr. Saviour had loved for hunting so much, despite the kind of the work and the nature of the work, he was good and even happy about it, when my Dad heard about his decision, he went to see him in the evening, but Mr. Saviour was still of his view that he would rather asked his younger brother to go and accept the offer on his behalf, no one in the community understands him, it was only my Dad who understands him more because they were both Friends and it was make clear that teachers always understands people easily, because a teacher is also a counsellor, Mr. Saviour younger brother was given the appointment.
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Fast forward, an event was fixed and a big Sum of money was staked, where all the hunters in the community had to participate because the Money was a far sum of money, but Upon all the hunters, it was Mr. Saviour who emerge the winner and brought out a greater numbers of animals he had a clear shoot on their forehead as was the criteria for the competition. He was declare the winner and a big Sum of money was given to him.
Now, i could be in Mr. saviour's shoes and i can see what passion for a thing is all about, when your heart dwell on a certain thing, no matter what you are been offer you would not take it because you have no liking for it, until it is that thing which you love.
Masquerade - one of the Christmas activities in Nigeria
Daniel said, believe me, we are going to see the masquerade on their camp and give them our presence for the season.
Since Daniel can lie a lot, i did not believe him but not knowing this time, he was ready for anything, here was afternoon and he came to my lodge and we went to see the masquerade dance and others masquerade activities.
went it was time to appreciate the masquerade, Daniel brought out his present (bags of beans) and gave to the masquerade leader, the masquerades and me on the other hand, i presented my bag if rice to the masquerade leader, and they did thank you, the were happy for our present and what others Peoples had presented.
The afternoon was full of fun, Daniel really made my last year Christmas Memorable, such that i would never forget, when i turned my eyes and look at him in the masquerade camp, he was dancing and i dance towards him, told him i am sorry Daniel for doubting you, i promise i will not doubt you anymore.
He smiled and said, i am the one to say i am sorry, because i have denied you this privilege for a longer time, we went home and Daniel took me to my Lodge and drove away, we enjoyed our Christmas hereafter.
*All the photographys are mine and i am the one besides the masquerad*e
Thank you for giving us this privilege to share Christmas activities all over the world.
Love the greatest fear of humanity
I have been thinking, is love really what I think it is? So I will like to hear from you too.
Have you ever been in love before?
Is being in love fearful?
Does it hurt at times?
What does real love really feels like?
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Being in loves brings so much joy to ones heart,
It is like a caterpillar that grade all the entrance of the road and yet not feels tired and still want to do more.
Love makes one's heart complete and beating.
It is the power that can never be seen which has the force of awaken the heart and grows stronger each day by day.
when love turns to lost, it is because of the surprise of the expected that occur in the process.
When you are truly in love, you would speak of it and you will also be grateful of the feelings that it brings to you all the time, because, so the heart is thinking, so it will be doing.
Without loves in one's life, everything seems meaningless.
**How do we meet fear in love**
We meet fear in love when we are hurt, then this will now become something we have experience, and something we can testify about, then will also served as a yardstick of
measurements whenever we want to fall in love again, we remember our past and it becomes our **fear** in love.
This is one of the reasons some people find it difficult to go into a relationship, as a result of what he/she pass through, as they never will want to experience it again.
Having fear is a bad feelings that can take away all that brightened your day.
*Say no HURT and let LOVE lead*.
My Introduction to Read.Cash
My name is Oscar Afangideh, known as Repayme4568
I am from Akwa Ibom State, Nigeria, Africa, I will be sharing post about farming, gardening, agriculture and real life experience as well.
I am 27 years old, dark in complexion, I was Introduced to Read.cash by a friend on hive blockchain.
I love reading stories and learning new ideas from people, both male any female.
I am a university graduate, I studied Business Administration and Management, from Abia State University, Nigeria.
I love traveling also, and I will be sharing post about my travelling experience.
The meals I love the most are:
Ekpan nkukwo
Jellof rice
Nsala (white soup)
I speak English, fluently and also my native dialect efik.
Moreover, I love learning others Peoples culture, and getting to know them.
Thank you for reading my post
@repayme4568
