Excuses bring a lot more excuses.
I was thinking the other day about my excuses. I interest myself in so many things that it makes me feel like I am lagging in life. Without valid reason or without making excuses I can't proceed. So I was calculating if I am making excuses right.
Yes, there is a fine line between making false excuses and doing this in the right way. I don't know what do you think but I believe so.
And I always believed that if I put myself in the false excuse loophole then it will be tough to break the chain. Because excuses brain in not more other excuses.
So where we should draw the fine line?
As long as your excuses to not make your leg behind from what you are supposed to do I would call it a good excuse. Look up! There is a high chance that your excuses are making a black hole. I was there I had the experience. Our brain is a weird thing, it makes us believe in our excuses and we act upon that.
I read it somewhere that we should not excuse ourselves. This is so so so true.
Accuse the world of your only reason but never excuse yourself for the world.
Sound selfish? No, it's not.
Match it with your own life.
Did you ever tell your friend you can't join them because you have work? But you end up being lazy at home, though you have things to take care of? It's because our brain makes us believe our excuses and we put ourselves in the black hole.
It happens.
So lookup. If you are being lazy for no reason, not doing what you are supposed to do, ask yourself, "what's your excuse?"
I am so guilty with this. I always make excuses when I don't feel like going out or doing certaim tasks 😅