Mother is the best fighter on earth. She makes many sacrifice during her life time for protect her children. She always ready to sacrifice her life for her children shake.
Now we are going to know about a mother who can suffer a lot for her children. I'm hear it from her and now going to share with you. She was our neighbour but now live in Dhaka the capital of our country.
I'm write it how she was tell me. I mean on her toung...
I am a single mother. I live apart from my 6-year-old daughter Rafa. No, I didn't have a place for my parents, brothers and sisters. Everyone has avoided responsibilities like that. But at one point I helped them a lot. The younger brother was unemployed. I arranged a job for my elder brother. I managed the money with great difficulty from home and handed over the mortgaged land to my father. For dowry money, the marriage of younger sister Layla was about to break up. I gave my sister's wedding in my own hands with all the jewels of my wedding, all the money saved. My older sister Nayla Apa left me to look after her two sons and daughters while she was working. I kept them in my arms like my mother all day. Today that sister never once looked for my daughter. The older sister-in-law was about to die during the caesarean section. I ran away from Dhaka to Jessore with a 4 month pregnancy. I saved him with blood. Today that blood has been disturbed. He was not allowed to enter the house. Safe has informed that he will not be able to take care of the problems of other people's world. The elder brother was also silent. He got up and left behind his wife.
We are 5 siblings, with parents. Huge family. But I have none today. Blood and dishonesty in bad times. I was very happy at the beginning of my marriage with Shahid. But then someone else comes into his life. At first I couldn't believe it. But when I get one proof after another, how can I disbelieve !! There was a lot of quarrel about this. He used to abuse me with bad language. I can't stand blasphemy since childhood. I was beaten whenever I went to protest. Then it became a regular routine. At my father's house, I complained to my relatives. Everyone would give the same advice, "Adapt" No one understood, perhaps did not want to understand the pain of the sore body. Then when I showed the evidence, I thought maybe this time they would believe. Believed, he also said, "How dare you not keep your Swami Ray in the area ?? Go to another Betty how!!"
This is the rule of our society. No matter how much the daughter's son-in-law does wrong, the girl's family will blame the girl and push her back to that family. Do not want to understand once, how much the girl is in pain! My condition was the same. Exceeding the limit of endurance was the day that the naughty girl was brought home. I couldn't stand it anymore. I came out with a girl in my arms. But I had nowhere to go. Everyone says the same thing, "Can't stand it any more ??" "Girl go when people are so impatient ??" Have they ever found out, how inhuman pain I was in !! How much trouble a girl leaves her family !! Society will never know how much inhuman pain a girl has to endure. They just know how to point a dirty finger at a helpless girl !!
I went down alone in the battle of life, pressing my daughter to my chest. I was looking for a job. But who will give the job ?? Is there any better job available in this city with Inter pass certificate ?? Still, I was hopeful that it would be a small job. The mother and daughter will leave. Job is a golden deer !! When I went to give an interview, I fell prey to greedy eyes, I got an offer of a large sum of money !! I have not eaten but I have not given up. Eventually this burnt forehead got a job. People don’t take a good look at employing girls in this post. But I am helpless. I got a job, but I was in danger of renting a house. They will not rent a house to any young girl except men. I said I have a little girl. Then I faced more questions, where is my daughter's father, why doesn't he stay with me, how long have I been apart, what is the problem ... I am tired of answering all the useless annoying questions. Then I reply with a smile, if I rent a house.
But not everyone did it on the face. I wanted to have a sublet with a woman. But he just said on his face, if I stay or his family will be in trouble. I finally got the chance to have a sublet with a middle-aged woman. But I could not stay for more than two months. Or his boys are getting worse for me. Immediately asked to leave the house. I did not understand, what to do, where to go ?? But God's world is too big. Somewhere or other the right place matches. I got a chance to stay sublet with a new family. They are very good minded people. They also had two small children. He cared for my daughter very much. I could leave them alone and go to the office safely. I used to see the middle-aged boss in the office through my father's eyes. But after a while I realized that he had never seen me in the eyes of a girl but the opposite. So much filth was not tolerated. The job was needed, but not with respect.
I started looking for a new job with all my heart. I got a small new job. Receptionist, salary is very low. Then he was fairly safe. The rest of the time I used to do two or four tuitions. I would spend the month in Tenetun. He wanted to send her to a good school. But could not afford. I was admitted to a general school in the area. The days of our mother and daughter were going well. But happiness in my forehead does not last long. Shahid has filed a case for custody of his daughter. And everyone is saying "Shayla doesn't let my daughter come to me" but she never inquired about the girl by phone. I knew very well he was doing this to punish me, not for the girl. The people of the father-in-law's house were supporting him. My mother-in-law called and said, "You go to hell, give our granddaughter to us."
I wanted to keep my daughter safe, but I couldn't. I lost the case. Her father got custody of her daughter. He tore my heart and took the piece of heart. They did not have the slightest mercy. Every day I would go and stand in front of the house, to look at the girl at a glance, they would not let me meet. I will fight the case anew, I didn't have that money. I used to knock my head in the court of Allah, "I just want my daughter, nothing more" Shahed used to threaten me on the phone, "Do you have the ability to support a daughter ?? Can I teach a girl like me in English medium ?? So it won't be so much money. Where is the support of the goddess ?? " But my stubbornness was suppressed. I want my daughter !!
How many people went door to door, begged but no one looked back. I went to the Human Rights Commission. They listened to me and understood. They started the legal process on my behalf. I saw the light of hope. Finally, after a hundred years of burning wood, I found the manik in my chest back on my chest. Then my new war began. I didn't change my daughter's school, I will teach her in English medium. I challenged Shahid, I will show him and leave !! In addition to my job, I worked night shifts in a boutique store. With two to four students teaching in batches. There was no time to catch your breath. Tao never felt tired. There was no roof over the head, no ground under the feet. But I never gave up.
I could not study much by myself. I wanted to educate the girl in higher education. Today my daughter works as a flying officer in the Air Force. My efforts are worthwhile. I have been able to show the whole world that a single mother can establish a daughter through struggle. "I have been nominated for the Best Jewelry Award. I am proud of my daughter. The father's money, the lust for luxury, has never left me. Rather, I was clinging to this chest in the midst of scarcity. I could not afford expensive clothes or toys." There was no shortage of complaints, she would accept everything with a smile. I am really a gem mother after giving birth to such a golden girl
Thar was her speach. I enjoy and feel I were there when she tell us the story of her life.
Always respect a mother. Never blame her. Remember she is the only person who always think about your happiness.
I love my mother