We all have a different types or kind of family. Family that combine with a mother and a father together with the children. By the way what is Family for you? For us Family Is someone you lean on in any kinds of situation we are facing, family is the one who will be there for us.
What I loved being a FILIPINO is that the "Family" we called is something that should be proud of. FILIPINO family comes from a very respectful people who will teach you how to be a good person while you are child. Most grandmother and grandfather will teach us how to be a responsible one, how to help each other in times of need ,how to be able to share the blessings we have to others who are in need . Because way back more that 6 decades our grandfather and grandmother adopt a culture of being a helpful and generous person. But it's too different now in the New Generation because most of all people or even a family now are not responsible enough to their family.
Nakakasakit isipin na maraming pamilya na ngayon ay nawawasak Ng dahil Lang SA mga pansariling kaligayahan. Sobrang iba SA nakaugaliang kultura Ng mga Pinoy noong araw .NAKAMISS na MAGING bahagi Ng sinaunang pamilya na WALANG ibang iniisip kundi panu mapanatiling buonat masaya Ang pamumuhay. Ngayong araw ibang iba kasi mas iniisip Ng iba Kung saan sila mas sasaya na di iniisip Ang mga anak na maiiwan nila. Yung tipong di sinusubukang ayusin ang mga bagay bagay na magpapanatiling buo at matatag dahil ang isang pamilya ay masusubok sa maraming bagay na mas mas magpapabuo sa isang PAMILYA.
IN other side or a country family are just money. They don't even mind what will be the feelings of their children or even their parents if money is involve .For example in Chinese people ,you need to follow who would be your bride/groom in the future in the sake of the business of both sides . Without consulting what will be the opinion or feeling of both parties to join this sacrade seremony they have . In elder or old parents ,children can't take care of their parents because they need to walk hard for their future also .And it end to a Nursing Home or Home for the aged , grandparents are taking care of others not by their family.
Different kind of family in different kind of culture but if we think how valuable and precious the meaning of family is maybe you will do your best to build a most wonderful FAMILY. We need to learn how to be a good and responsible parents for this behavior our children will continue our story in the future. Be a blessing to children because they will plant what they saw.