Once a child kept a tortoise, fed it all day and played with it.
On a cold winter's evening, the child wanted to play with his tortoise, but the tortoise hid in its shell to keep out the cold and keep warm. The child tried hard to persuade the tortoise to come out of the shell, but to no avail. In annoyance, he picked up a stick and beat the tortoise, but to no avail. The child screamed and tried to persuade the tortoise to come out, but the tortoise was frightened and kept pushing harder and harder into its shell.
When the boy's father entered the room, the boy was trembling with anger.
The father asked the child;
What's the matter son
The child told the whole story of himself and the tortoise to the father. The father smiled, took the child's hand and said leave it and come with me. Holding the child's hand, the father took him to the fireplace, lit a fire and sat by the heat and began to talk to the child. It wasn't long before the tortoise slowly came to them to warm up. The father smiled and looked at the child who was happy to see the turtle.
Addressing the child, the father said: Humans are like turtles. If you want them to take off their shells and meet you with an open heart, give them the warmth of your love, not by force of the rod or by your command.
One of the hidden secrets of people with attractive and magical personality is that they ..In life, people are captivated by the warmth of their love and the warmth of their emotions, and by their admiration and appreciation, they create feelings of love and longing for themselves in their hearts, and then sow the seeds of those emotions. But reigns over them and their hearts.
And the human being is such that no one can dwell in his heart except to be accompanied by the warmth of his emotions, the purity of his heart and the purity of his soul.