You see, everyone has got problems. Someone once said a problem free life is a boring life. There is always one thing or the other bothering us, threatening our very existence, robbing us of true happiness and fellowship with friends and families.
The problem most of us claim to have are not really the problem but how we react is what makes it a problem. I have 3 different classification of people's reactions to problems
Those who accept they have problems and face it head on looking for every possible solution to the problem.
Those who accept they have problems but would rather blame others, karma and even ancestral curses on their problems instead of looking for a solution.
Those who live in denial and will never accept they have problems perhaps because of their faith in some spiritual being that tells them they can never have problems.
Whether you are no 2 or 3, the truth is you have a problem and you need to have the mental strength, attitude and resilience to fight these problems.
Don't always believe someone can help you solve your problems. Everyone has got their own demons they are fighting. Try fighting yours first before seeking help from others.
Like Princess said, do not despise those that come to you for solutions to their problems. Even if you've got your own problem, lend a listening ear and do the little you can to
alleviate some of these problems.
Are you someone that the only time you call your friends is when you have problems to the extent that your friends no longer pick your calls because it is always filled with complaints? Have a change of attitude. No one was created to solve your problems. Everyone has got their own problems