Have you every found yourself wedged between a rock and a hard place? Having to make a choice is hard but having to make a choice when you have two options is harder. This doesn't have anything to do with your temperament. Making decisions especially life decisions always have one thinking so hard because it has the ability to make or mar your future.
A friend of mine once said, "Having options is a great thing because it makes you think carefully and once you make the decision, you have to live with it regardless if it turns out to be a bad decision because you had an option and you made a choice". This is why it is important to stay calm and composed and weigh your options writing out the pros and cons and checking which has more pros than cons.
Is there anything really like a bad choice? I believe the reason why it is difficult to make a choice when you have options is because both options qualify as a good enough. If the second was nothing to write home about, it would have been an easy decision to make. Making a decision doesn't make anyone successful, sticking to your decision against all odds is what makes it successful. It's all about mindset.
When having issues with making a difficult decision, it is wise to talk to other people. Let them help analyse the situation and make the decision clearer and easier. In addition, follow your guts, it will never lead you astray because we always know deep down what we truly want. Trust in yourself and have confidence in whatsoever decision you will make. If you are believer, pray about it and do not quieten whatever revelation you receive.
Lastly, never regret any decision you make.
Have you had any experiences with making a tough decision, how did you achieve success
