What you should know?
All you can do
What you should know
It is easy to bully the Internet. “Even good kids get bad online because they can't be seen here,” says the book CyberSafe.
There are people who often become its target. This includes those who are selfish, seemingly different, or people who are low self-esteem.
Cyberbullying has serious consequences. It can lead to depression and depression, and some of its victims may even commit suicide.
All you can do
First, ask yourself, ' Is this really bullying ?' At times, others may even speak harshly. Then we can apply the Bible's wise counsel:
“Do not hurry yourself in your spirit to become offended, for the taking of offense is what rests in the bosom of the stupid ones.” - Ecclesiastes 7: 9 .
But if someone is intentionally harassing, humiliating, or threatening you online, that is bullying.
If you experience cyberbullying, keep this in mind: You may make the situation worse or worse depending on how you react. Try making one or more of these tips.
Ignore the bully. The Bible says: “The one keeping his lips in check is acting discreetly, and a man of discernment is cool of spirit.” - Proverbs 17:27 .
Why this advice is effective: “What bullies really want is to get angry with their target,” says Nancy Willard in her book Cyberbullying and Cyberthreats. "When the targets get angry, they seem to be in control of the bullies."
Remember: Sometimes the best thing to do is to ignore it.
Restrain yourself and do not retaliate. The Bible says: “Return evil for evil to no one.” - 1 Peter 3: 9 .
Why this advice is effective: “When you get angry, you show that you are weak, and you get bullied even more,” says the book Cyber-Safe Kids, Cyber-Savvy Teens . And when you react aggravated you the trouble started bully.
Note: Do not light a fire.
Take positive steps. The Bible says: “Do not let yourself be conquered by the evil.” ( Romans 12:21 ) You can do something to stop the bullying, has not worsened the situation.
Example:
Block sending messages. “If you do not read, you will not be hurt,” says the book Mean Behind the Screen.
Save all evidence, even if you are not reading it. This includes aggressive text messages, instant messages, e-mails, blog or social media posts, voice messages, or more.
Tell the cyberbully to stop. Send a direct message, such as:
"Don't send a message anymore."
"Take off your post."
"If you don't stop, I will do something to make sure you stop."
Have self-confidence. Focus on your good qualities and not on your weaknesses. ( 2 Corinthians 11: 6 ) Like other bullies, cyberbully victims look for the weak.
Tell an adult. First of all, tell your parents about it. You can also report it on the website or on the service used by the bully. When the situation worsens, your parents should report it to your school and to the police, or even find out what you can do according to the law.
Remember: There is something you can do to stop harassing you or reduce the impact of cyberbullying on you.
“If you are experiencing cyberbullying, do you really need to use that site? Is it more harmful to you than good? Can you block that person? Often, you can do something to get out of this situation. ”- Natalie.
“If you experience cyberbullying, talk to an adult. Don't be afraid to be called 'weak' or 'baby.' You are not like that. It takes courage to speak up. ”- Darius.