True essence of love

What is love? What is affection? What is like to truly love somebody? or what is like to prefer someone rather than yourself? what is like to leave everybody and prefer only a single person in the entire world ? These are the questions, we can't get answers of! unless we face it, the thing we call love.

so here we start

discussing love. We create conception about something from either listening from someone who has a influence on us or understanding the thing itself from our past experiences. Is love something deteriorating in worn out pages of old books or something truly that exists even today in this materialistic world.Love is not a new thing. There's some evidence that it exists from ancient world. First human must have been a lover. Cleopatra was a lover. Mozart was a lover. Picasso was a lover. Romeo and Juliet were lovers. Love had such a great influence over the human history. It is not the something we can directly deny or we can't deny at all. Can we objectify love? Is love getting someone to show our influence or power?From novelists to scientists, everyone has different thoughts on love.Scientists say that love is nothing more than the chemical reactions occuring in your brain. Hypothalamus is the part of the brain that controls the love. So scientists say that it's nothing more than the some chemical reactions.Ascetics say that true love is something that only God deserves, not the people. In their views, people should be behaved nicely calmly but true love must be conserved for God.Materialistic people say that there is nothing like love. In their thoughts love is just a term used by the novelists and movie producers for their own benefits. Or they don't we reflect about love.Different novelists had different thoughts on love. From Brontè to Elizabeth Gaskell. Some considered love more than a simple affection and simple emotions i-e anger, fear and happiness.

Different thoughts on love

Some considered it to be a great emotion and wrote great novels that impressed generations. Few considered it to be a simple emotion.Concept about love kept on changing kept on changing over the time in the human history.Is love something described in the movie 'The fault in our stars' or it is something described in novel 'Pride and prejudice'.Is love only a social thing. Answer is "no". love is not only a cultural thing, no doubt that culture influence us to love somebody. Here an example Imagine studying in a class of a high school having 10 girls and all boys in the class are following one gorgeous girl. That would surely influence you to catch that girl to satisfy your pride and ego. Its in subconscious mind. So it's the social impact on love. Society can cause us to love somebody. A man having more social impact make women to love him. Its in evolutionary process. Because in past a man with great social impact could protect her and her kids.Love is also a biological thing. Hormones like oxytocin do play a great role. The thing is what cause these hormones to release? What tells these hormones when to release? When we do love somebody ? We haven't found these answers.Is love blind? If love is blind so why we normally love a beautiful person.

Love of my life

When I was in high school, I fell in love with a girl. She was the most beautiful girl in our class. Nearly the most beautiful i had seen in my life at that time. She was truly a gorgeous girl to watch. She was pleasure to my eyes. She was a joy for my lonely soul. I started i following her. From brushing my teeth to going out. whenever i tried to talk to her I couldn't. There wasn't a moment when I didn't think about her. But I couldn't gather my emotions to express my love for her. So here my story ended just a one-sided lover. I could have given my everything for her. She was all above me, over my body over my soul.

Conclusion

So here I come with the conclusion that love is not the simple emotion or thing it is truly beyond. No one can define love in the simple words. Everyone has different thoughts on love. Because it is the one of the most polysemy word. By reading this article, I know that you haven't concluded what is love. But I know that you have come up with a better question.