Needs vs. Wants
I know we are all like this sometimes we have wants but we prioritize what is needed. Especially if there is no permanent source of employment to buy what we want. Before we buy about ten times we first think about wether it is worth buying or not. If we can use it everyday? Those are the first questions in mind before buying the personal preference.
You need to prioritize the important purchases before the preference. Because you have children who can't go hungry. I didn't think it would be like this when you get married, you'll have problems with everything. I always say to myself, this is how my mother used to feel and then we were reprimanded. We asked for money because we thought they had a lot of money and just didn't want to give it to us, but they just managed to fit the money they had just so we wouldn't go hungry. So now I have a lot of respect for my mother because I understand how she feels.
I sometimes laugh at myself because I have a lot of add to carts in the shoppee and lazada because I tell myself I don't have proper clothes anymore. I just were that much over and over again when I leave. As well as the childrens clothes and my husband, I added a lot to the cart. All the bags, shoes and sandals that I want are added to the cart. But when I have money, I don't want to buy even one. Because what I had in my mind was that we might run out of money to buy rice and dish.
I want to buy new household items but need to prioritize rice, dishes, cooking necessities, morning necessities like coffee and milk, and paying for electricity and water. My childs vitamins and my vitamins, because I might lose blood due to wakefulness.
Ever since I got married I've always thought that we might not have anything to eat if I put my wants first. I just told myself that it can also be bought if you earn a large amount, so I persevered with free sites and free apps that can make money. The important thing is that our family does not starve. Even if I wear my clothes over and over again, I won't be ashamed. Because personality is not measured by the splendor of clothing. The important thing is that we buy the food we want, and we provide everything our childrens needs.
Before going to sleep, I wrote an article first because I was busy all day fiddling with free sites and testnets. I might stumble even with a small income. Good morning ..... Happy Easter Sunday🙏
13th article 04-17-2022
Same tayo sis mas since nagka asawa ako mas uunahin ko talaga ang needs kesa sa wants. Di kya ako bumibili ng gmit para sa sarili ko or unless may pa ayuda hehehe.