Change yourself for a change in life

"95% of people plan for this year start, but after January 15, the planning ends."
Whenever the new year begins, people make some promises to themselves that we They have to change themselves as the New Year changes and they make new plans to bring about that change. First of all, it is important to understand what is meant by planning. Planning means: “The best of time and resources. Use in style ”and also remember that planning is not always about big things but small things.
There is a common misconception about planning that its purpose is only to make money. In fact, it is only one aspect, while to change and succeed in life, not just one aspect but all aspects must be implemented. The question is, there are a lot of people who are hardworking, capable and have a passion for self-transformation, but even then their planning doesn't last long. What is the reason for this? I am being offered.

The motives are not clear

The first reason that planning does not last long is that the goals they intend to achieve are not clear. For example, if a person does not know where he is going, then his journey Start in any direction, can't reach the destination. It is a state of anxiety which is the worst state of mind. In this state man cannot reach any decisive point. Man's mind is like a powerhouse. Has clear goals, but if those goals are not clear then it will never be achieved.

Not ready

Another reason for the failure of planning is that people are not prepared to reach the destination they want to reach. They are cheap but want to sell expensive and then when they do not succeed, they take everything Put on luck and sit down in despair. For great success you have to look at the aspects of your caste where there is weakness and then after that you have to work on them. Take the example of the game. A player who He is determined to play well. He thinks that once I get a chance to come on the field, I will give such performances that the world will remember, but he did not shed his sweat in net practice, no matter how high his determination. Otherwise, he will not be able to play a good game on his own.

Lack of willpower

The third important factor for success in planning is will power. Will power means how mature a person is in his words and to what extent he is committed to his words. It's a big deal. Most of us have dug a lot and left half a well. Due to lack of willpower, after a few days of hard work in one task, it is abandoned, then another is started and it is also abandoned. If one works hard in the same well with perseverance, then the treasure can come in handy.
Willpower endows man with the wealth of perseverance and another name for perseverance is Karamat. Interestingly, willpower is not a matter of age, profession or ability, but it is a universal principle and whoever follows it attains success.

Human companionship

Whether a person's life is successful or unsuccessful, a big role in this is played by the people with whom he gets up and sitting down. If there are people who have negative and frozen thoughts then because of them human thoughts also get frozen. He cannot think big again. The company of friends affects him and he is not ahead in life. It may increase. So it is important to take care of who I am sitting among. If you have friends who are hindering your progress and because of them your thoughts are also frozen, then look again. Can these people be released or not? If it is possible to leave, leave and if it is not possible, close the relationship with them. ۔

Change: Step by step,
says Stephen Gois:
"There are a lot of people who want to change themselves at once, but it's not possible, because it's against the law of nature."
How successful or unsuccessful is a human being? Take a look at his habits and you will know. In fact, this is the first step to success and after stepping on it, the next steps become easier. The tragedy is that most of us want to change ourselves completely at once. Yes, from tomorrow I will read a book for two hours a day or exercise for an hour, etc., but it does not happen. For example, if you want to make a habit of reading, start with one page, but the condition is to be consistent. This consistency will give you the energy that makes it easier for you to increase your reading volume. will be done.

Learn from mistakes
Get in the habit of admitting your mistakes. It is very difficult to be your own critic. It is said that if you want to be happy then listen to praise and if you want to be better then listen to criticism. Progress begins. You must have made a lot of mistakes last year. Make a list of all of them and write down what you learned from them. Your lessons are invaluable. Tie them to the play. These lessons will come in handy in the next life. Experience is the greatest teacher. Take advantage of your experiences and write them down in a diary. You can also give these lessons the title of last year's lessons.

Decorate new dreams
Decorate new and bigger dreams, dreams bring motivation in life. Dreamers are optimistic. Make dreams of every field. Make dreams about business, education, relationships, home, society and write them down. Remember if you have written down your dreams and also remember that your dreams need the following principles to get their interpretation.
Principle 1: Every new thing is first formed in the mind of man and then comes into being. The thing that is in a person's mind, it comes to his palm.
Principle 2: Believe in yourself and your dreams, because if you don't believe in your own dreams and ideas, they can't come into existence.
The third principle:Feel as if your dreams have come true, that is, you have to impose on yourself the condition that you want to be in now. It will pull the thing towards you and you will become it.
Appreciate the
time The real value of life is the value of time. The amazing thing is that the most influential people in the world value their time very much, because they have a greater feeling than other people that time is scarce and Life is about to come to an end. The clock is ticking by the ticking of the clock. If you spend the last year of and every day of it as the last day, then you too will become effective.

Make life meaningful
Einstein had said in a lecture: "Bind your life to a purpose. Your life will not be wasted."
Is a person willing to sacrifice a hundred years for a purposeful life if there is no purpose? It doesn't matter if the life is years or even centuries. Thanks to the "great purpose" man also becomes great. In the history of the world, you will see people still alive today who may have lived to be 60 or 70 years old but made their purpose in life very great.
You too can be a role model for generations to come, provided you value time, keep your goals high and decide to live life accordingly.