When you experience such immense suffering and feel like you can’t go on, it feels like the whole world is collapsing in on you.
Your friends will probably begin by showing some sympathy, but after some time they’ll begin to push you, saying things like:
“You need to get back on your feet” and “When are you going to move on?”
It’s easy to react with frustration to this suggestion. How could they possibly understand the pain and loss you’re experiencing? They obviously just don’t get it.
But the truth is this:
They’re right. Your situation may feel dire. But it’s going to change. The time will come when you have to move on.
It’s difficult to take advice from people when you’re feeling so frustrated. According to research in the Journal of Applied Psychology, our emotional state influences how receptive we are to the advice we receive.
Your mental and emotional strain makes it very difficult to see your current situation clearly.
Whether you’ve lost someone close to you, a relationship, a career or something else that was incredibly important to you, you’ve based your reason to live on this thing.
You’ve probably lived with purpose and passion, and this thing has been taken away from you.
Your reason to live has been taken away with it.
You now feel lost, trapped and confused, because the thing you’ve put so much into is gone.
It’s as if both of your legs have stopped working and there’s nothing to grab onto as you fall.
Good morning everyone have a wonderful day. Hope you are well today.
Very inspiring and touching article , it's true moving forward is important in life if you want to make progress . Faith is another word for moving forward even things don't make sense trusting that in hindsight everything will become clear.