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November is now waving! so this article is for those Ghosted or been on Ghosting
What is Ghosting by the way?
It is suddenly disappearing from someone's life without any communication.
utilizing verbal or non-verbal, such as;
Emails, phone calls, texts, or using social media platforms.
but on this modern-day, this setting is quite popular without noticing that you've Been Ghosted
Do you feel or experience some of this? If yes, Congrats! You've been Ghosted (Boo!)
Reasons why do People do Ghosting and these are:
Self-Care. Some of the people lacking self-care and prioritized themselves after a heartache or suffering.
Fear. This may occur when a person got attached but ain't love them in return or simply scared of the rejection or it can be Fear for the commitment.
Conflict avoidance. to avoid any conflicts or necessary dramas this reasoning is common especially to those into the person that not that social, due to heartbreak they didn't want to see that person anymore.
Lack of consequences. Since they not totally committed nor sharing personal information, friends, or much else in common they have never been seen that as a big deal to walk out to their life freely
Few Scenarios that you've Been Ghosted
Friend
If you've been hanging out or chatting almost every day and suddenly stops the communication or he/she is not responding they are already ghosting you.
You can found out that they are not capable of reaching out they always find a reason to keep themselves busy or simply they don't want you as a friend anymore.
Dating Partner
If you are already dating or went out for a date for a couple of times and when they suddenly vanished maybe they didn't felt the romantic spark or not ready for the next steps of dating.
Co-worker
This one occurs when you and your officemates have a great bond, chatting and hung out regularly.
They may be ghosting you once they are switch in positions or promotion happens simply because they are going to depend on the department where they have been assigned. They don't have enough time to maintain the relationships just like before and prioritizing their new colleagues.
These are some reasons and scenarios about Ghosting, and we should know how to handle this and move on, as they affect your self-esteem and mental health.
To get out of Ghosting simply, Give yourself time and enjoy little things and treat them with no string attached.
You can also consider this:
Invest at yourself instead
Set Boundaries
Don't expect too much
Hold your horse
Don't blame yourself instead treat it better
Seek help from professional
Spend time with friends or family
Do what you love or Passion
Always love yourself don't be a Ghost! Avoid Ghosting👻
Ps. Call Ghostbusters if you are already with a ghost😁
This is Mooontivated ... I'm out!
Guilty.
Ghosted some people and was ghosted too. Before, I really don't understand why someone would just suddenly leave without any explanation. But when I was in that situation, well, I would say that it's actually better not explaining things. But whatever the reason may be, ghosting is never right. I'm trying not to do it again, so it's better to not let people come into my life, than let them in and eventually ghost them or get ghosted by them lol.