So i came across this motivational video about being a young man in this century and i decided compile a list of what i got or learnt from the book on becoming a young man in todays society...
1- know the different between love and lust, just know the difference between having a great time with somebody and actually wanting to be with some body for the rest of you life.
2- it's OK to go to the movies by yourself, yes its good to go to the movies by you self be cause its a form of you thinking, meditating and being by your self.
3- Hygiene is more important than you think, perfumes alone can not make up for bad body odors, because when you look and smell good it says a lot about you.
4- never date a friend's ex, its really not cool, its kills the trust.
5- stay informed on what's going on. Don't be at sleep, stay informed about things and have your opinion, but don't offend anyone with it.
6- have a sense of humor but don't joke about dreams and goals, don't joke about your dreams and goal and don't let people joke about it either.
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7- study the type of people who upset you and why.
8- Stand up to bullies. You'll only have to do it once, yup you are probably going to get into a lot of fight if you don't stand up to bullies.
9- don't bully people weaker than you, it just shows that you have deeper insecurities
10- learn how to tell stories, its the best way to make a point.
11- don't lean on porn to be better in bed. Read the right books.
12- you never marry a girl. You marry her entire family, you have to make right with the family.
13- don't complain- you seem hopeless. 80% /20%, its just portrays you as being helpless.
14- be impressed by the right things. Things that matter, you become a man of character when you are impressed by the right things.
15- when coming across a successful person talk / impress less. ask more.
16- have a memorable style, figure out what your style is and make it memorable.
17- don't feel guilty for being ambitious, don't apologize if you got big ambitions in life yup😋...
18- be mentally and emotionally ready to lose loved ones.
19- always have some cash, condoms, and power banks.
20- be aware of you level of sensitivity, control your sensitivity.
21- regardless of what you get paid per hour, give your best. Effort + attitude matters, because opportunity would offer it self to you.