Why judge or point? When can we support
<It is better to be part of the solution than part of the problem>
Judging, pointing, criticizing unfortunately has become the favorite sport or the habit of many people, many times they are even things that we do unconsciously, therefore we should take responsibility for our actions and identify those that lead us adrift, that only hurt us. because they steal our energy, energy that in one way or another we could be investing in positive things in order to improve our lives instead of being aware of what the person next door does or does not do, we do not realize that we it does more damage to us because we stop living our lives, to be aware of others, time is the most valuable thing that the human being has, therefore we should be responsible when using it and always invest it in productive things that we help improve, in all areas of our lives as well as that every day promote actions that put us closer to our goals. We should not get carried away by someone else's judgment, we should cultivate and use our own criteria because each person has different experiences, similar but different and unique, not everyone has the same opinion of something or someone because that goes according to their experience , but it is up to us to venture to live that experience with something or someone before giving a final verdict.
Many times feelings such as envy cloud us whenever we see people from our environment or strangers, we think very wrongly that we deserve the same success, that it is we who deserve it and said person does not, but we do not stop, nor do we analyze that person to get to where he is today, he had a process full of sacrifices, discipline, perseverance, perseverance, that he never gave up and always gave up, that if our goal is the same or different from his, we should take that person as an inspiration because he always You need an action plan, because nothing comes from the sky, we must work every day to improve ourselves, in addition to the decisions and actions we take are always in favor of getting closer to those stated objectives. Therefore, instead of envying how beautiful it would be to change that bad feeling for inspiration, let's take these people more than as something negative as a source of inspiration, as a kind of gasoline, because if they could only mean one thing that you can too, because nobody can stop a person who knows what he wants and who also strives every day to work and be better, we must also always wish nice things to those people, because what you wish your neighbor will return, if it is hate, Harmful feelings or feelings charged with positivism will return doubly charged, but in the end you decide if you want to live a life full of hatred or on the contrary full of positive gasoline that inspires you every day to be better.
Let us never forget that what we criticize speaks more about us than what we criticize, that's why think well, become analytical with your thoughts, with your behavior because they are things that we do unconsciously but that with effort and desire we can remedy, because being a better person It is possible as long as we want to be, so consent to stop and analyze your actions that you are or are not doing well, create a plan to leave that behind by centralizing and changing bad actions for good ones and creating habits that help you improve, We must even be aware that we must manage our time better, because we inadvertently spend time looking at others and criticizing them when we should be focused on ourselves, on being better, looking for solutions and alternatives that allow us to always move, not stay stagnant, because we are not the architects of other people's lives but if we are the architect of our lives, we can do and undo what we want in our lives, because we should not be afraid of leaving behind things that anchor us to a past that unfortunately has no future, we should do things that make us feel good about ourselves and not about others, of course this is not It implies doing things that harm others because you would not be changing, you would be stagnating otherwise.
My Sunday advice to you is that you do not let yourself be carried away by prejudice or what they say about you and do not please turn against others by doing what they did to you, set an example to the world through your actions, let's not let that the unhealthy comments of people get in the way of our happiness, instead of judging strangers, your friends, your family, support them because we are all living our own process and many times some more than others have difficulties to continue floating and many times we can act in those lives in a positive way being an anchor to the outside through support and empathy or we can sink them through our meaningless actions based on hatred and envy that instead of affecting those people more they end up billing us. Do not let your envy or the accusations imposed by other people deprive you of meeting incredible people who will only help your life in a positive way, do not let the false prototypes imposed by society blind you because when you realize it may be too late, do not stop supporting all your friends and family in any decision, project or undertaking they make because there is no more sincere support than that of those who you supported and now they return it to you.
Live and let live, live and don't let other people's assumptions cloud your judgment, create your own conclusions through actions, don't judge anyone because then they can do the same to you, remember that life is like a boomerang, if you do evil, it will return to you and more charged, if you do good there can only be positive things in your life.