We should not judge our ignorant self of the past with our version of the present more wise

<<It is not enough to just know, it must be acted upon and applied>>

Judgments and prejudices have been our greatest executioners and limits in life, not only towards others, but also from us towards ourselves, which is an aspect that even generates greater damage, because we are attacking ourselves, against our authenticity and clearly towards everything that with much effort and sacrifice we have created in the particularity of the years. Judging is perhaps something that will never end, it is something we learn to live with, it is something that is even a fundamental part of free will, but we must be aware when doing it, be prudent, review the pros and cons , as well as being able to ask ourselves if it is something that favors the world by doing it, otherwise it is better to remain silent, because ignorance speaks definitively, intelligence remains silent, besides, we are not the ones to decide whether what they do is positive or negative. others stop doing or in another perspective we are not prudent, because we blind ourselves and do not see the damage we cause ourselves by pointing out our past, because it will never return, as the word expresses, it is part of a time that has already ended, that everything what happened only served as a basis for us to achieve greater wisdom in the present.

Embracing our human nature and all the stages that make it up will make us flexible, because the things we live by on a daily basis are inevitable, some are coincidences and others are totally causalities that are the product of the good or bad decisions we make, knowing how to live together but above all accepting, is the most rewarding thing that can exist, because we remove a weight from our soul, freeing us from living anchored to things that no longer have a future. One of the purposes that we all share is wanting to improve ourselves but competing to improve ourselves personally, to be better people and bring out all that is beautiful and positive about us to the world, although many are truly winners when they achieve it, there are those who need pushes or help because many times our enemy does not it is someone else, our enemy in many circumstances lives in us, since we even employ self-destructive behaviors and habits, the worst thing is that there are countless cases where people are not fully aware of this fact, once we manage to accept, and let On the one hand, we can take a step that will take us from where we are to move towards a wiser life, so I will list some aspects that you can use as an anchor to be able to overcome these stages;

-Do not judge anyone, not even yourself, try to be aware of the habits that rob you of energy that you could be putting into real things that help you flow and even live without expectations of others, each one is unique because it is different and it is something that is fine.

-Do what you want, don't hold back, it's your life and your biggest commitment is with yourself, so stop running away and start doing what you've always wanted but because of fear you've limited yourself, never stay with the desire, life It's so short, time flies by and you don't even notice it.

-Surround yourself with people who make you a better person even if it sounds cliché, but you are the sum of the five people with whom you live the most on a daily basis, therefore, dear readers, always look for people who motivate you to get ahead, people who are not afraid of to love, to hug or simply to express things as they are and not as we would like them to be, true friends never forget this they are the ones who seek our well-being even speaking clearly to us even if it hurts us but without a doubt it is a landing that will make us put the feet back on the ground.

Finally stop worrying about failures, failures are something that we cannot erase or suppress from life, life comes with scratches included but where the most beautiful thing is to be able to get up again and clearly heal our wounds, for that reason it is better having thousands of marks on our skin from having tried than having gone to bed and wondering what had happened. I hope it serves you, the objective of each of my deliveries is always to help through my words.

Thank you for reading!