The world needs more kindness and empathy

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My most personal wish towards the world is that love, respect, kindness, solidarity and empathy always reign, but every day I wonder if something is taking the world backwards and not towards the right path, which is that of peace and love, I fear checking the phone every day because I feel that I will find something that will make me sad even if it has not happened to me or someone close to me that I know, I feel empathy towards people who are victims of violence, violence is the actions whose fundamental pillar is to hurt or harm someone, either through words or a verbal approach or through a stronger physical violence, leads me to question why people are not able to control themselves so as not to harm anyone, It leads me to think why they did not seek help to evolve and be better in ways such as knowing how to set limits so as not to harm anyone else or themselves, because not only do many need more kindness and empathy towards others, but also even more important towards themselves. Starting with ourselves or improving that relationship with us is the best start to make the reflection of our actions with the world only shows that we are lacking.

Violence definitely does not act alone, it has an engine, which is damage, violence always seeks to harm in some way, as I mentioned before, verbal damage directly attacks the psyche of people, we see happy faces all the time, but the reality they live these people are extremely different, many people wear a mask with the world in general, one perhaps out of pity, fear and fear of being judged, let's remember that it is a world where currently and thanks to the networks the illusion of a perfect life is propagated , but reality is not always rosy, life is full of nuances, whites, blacks, as everything has lights and shadows, therefore being pragmatic, careful should be a priority, we do not know when even something extremely small can damage or destabilize someone's mental health, also not only happens to others, it also happens to ourselves, we do not know when something we do, think or say to others can cause pain or severe damage, therefore it is essential to work on knowing everything about ourselves to know limits.

Unfortunately there are moments where many feelings and emotions come together that are basically a ticking time bomb, not knowing how to manage, how to drain, how to work with it can take us to extremes, extremely negative extremes such as touching violence or letting someone violate us, For this reason, it is extremely important to know how to control ourselves, it is important to always keep in mind that no one deserves to be beaten, no one deserves to have their life ended, no one deserves to have their dreams or goals ended, no one deserves to be taken from their life, nor of your loved ones, the main motivation of this writing is to raise your voice for those who cannot do it, it is to bring to you questions that have come to me and that many still have no explanation, I do not understand in the end what is the reason for many people to go to the extreme of ending or ending someone's life, we are human, we are living the human experience, but even so as a human I do not quite understand how someone can be so vile to murder, I firmly believe that they are also vulnerable people who They also did not know how to handle themselves, which is why they obviously reached such extremes.

Now, I want to tell you about the cases that led me to materialize this article, the first one that happened in an inhospitable corner of the world but still went viral due to the nature of the crime, that of Dr. Edwin Arrieta, who is currently first known He was beheaded and subsequently dismembered, which undoubtedly makes it a very cruel murder, regardless of the differences he shared with his attacker, he should have first stepped on other instances, it is even obvious that he should never have done so, regardless of his tastes, ideologies, thoughts, and so on. Nobody deserves what happened to this human being, because you are not what you decided to make of your life with respect to a profession, you are human and therefore you will always deserve respect. On the other hand, the crime or femicide against the Mexican Alma Lourdes, who died at the hands of a frequent visitor or customer of the store for which she works, whose people continually harassed both the other customers and the other employees, including the sister of the deceased for whom he decided to confront him and ask him not to do it, but this man got out of control, allowed himself to be blinded by his rage and anger, basically insulting her and returning a few hours later to commit the heinous act that would leave a little girl without a mother Because if Alma Lourdes was a mother now her little girl would be orphaned because of a man who lacked humility, humanity, kindness and empathy.

Thank you for reading!