Stop comparing your universe is unique, wonderful and tremendous

<Comparison kills creativity, joy and simplicity>

Polarizing and comparing are extremely negative aspects for our tranquility and emotional well-being, it is impossible not to accept even that on many occasions and circumstances we have compared ourselves, with people we think are more successful, intelligent or more beautiful than us or simply because they have been blessed in many aspects we have the false conviction and perception that if we had the same as them we would be less unhappy, which is a complete farce, as the famous phrase says "if you are not happy even with the little you have, you will never be happy when you have much more” in some way the comparison generates a competitiveness but negative and absolutely not healthy, it leads us to underestimate ourselves, to feel less because we are not like the others, at these points we are unable to recognize the wonderful person that we are , that having or not having does not define us, on the contrary, what defines us is our attitude towards ourselves and towards those of more full of love, empathy, understanding and respect.

<Comparison is the death of peace and well-being>

Comparison is a dangerous aspect, because it makes us feel in two very different ways, the first is to feel undervalued, making us less of ourselves, not valuing our achievements, sacrifices and everything that has cost us to work to achieve them and emerge victorious, the other way is when egocentrism takes over us making us feel inferior, always placing ourselves above others, belittling them, but these aspects that come as a consequence of not putting a stop to comparisons undoubtedly also have serious consequences for our mental health Due to the energy we spend always trying for the highest place or the energy that comes out of our system without realizing it because we feel undervalued, another extremely negative aspect of feeling superior to others is that in addition to thinking that we are completely perfect beings, we will live anchored to fear, fear of descending, fear of losing the supposedly highly valued position.

When we begin to compare ourselves, we undoubtedly lose security in ourselves and in what surrounds us, that is why it is so valuable to protect our well-being from bombs that can completely destabilize us as human beings, from aspects that make us lose our north, therefore when the time comes we will have concerns to review our way of behaving and what we have achieved, reflecting to be able to decide whether or not we are acting well, we must also reflect and firmly establish who we are, as well as everything that we have managed to establish with much sacrifice, it is important to be realistic , do not close your eyes, be completely alert because just as we have positive aspects we also have defects, nobody is perfect! Although the difference will always lie in how we act to improve, in that we also accept, in that we do not cower, on the contrary, we always go out on the bull by the horns and face the good, the bad and everything that comes.

Unfortunately it is a perspective that occurs mainly in women, it is something that happens many times without us being able to avoid it, many times it also happens because we do not have moments for ourselves, to question ourselves, to reflect, to decide what is doing us good and why the contrary is not stealing the calm. It also happens too much in youth, but it is also something that should have taught us to fight and something that we must spread to help thousands of people who feel like us but do not understand what is happening to them, do not have the tools that they have put us in the way, because the reality is that the only thing that comparison leaves us with is destruction, it leaves us in little pieces and many do not know how to put themselves back together, many need help to be their best version, because what What happens does not define us, it defines how we act in the face of difficult situations in life. Our self-esteem is closely linked to comparison, many times we are fine but as I said before, polarization and comparison is a lethal and silent weapon whose only objective is to torture us without even understanding it, when we finally realize our worth and our value self-esteem flows and rises, which naturally makes us have more confidence and security in ourselves.

I share below a list of multiple actions that have helped me personally to overcome moments where the comparison has done its thing in my life, where I have felt very bad but fortunately and also thanks to people who leave fear and sorrow to a side by sharing their life stories that are so unique that they have left me great lessons that helped my progress and now I can share them with you so that it never happens to you and also so that you can be victorious if you are going through something similar:

-Idolizing and idealizing is a complete trap, it has nothing to do with fictional characters, quite the opposite happens when people who have managed to overcome themselves and achieve great things in life are idealized and idolized in an unrealistic way, this does not mean that you should not feel affinity for the people who are your source of inspiration, quite the opposite, if you realistically admire and keep your feet on the ground, knowing above all that they are as human as we are, that just as they have qualities they also have defects, they are also extremely relevant when, as I said previously we took them as a source of inspiration, as a source to get ahead, when we follow similar paths.

-Compare yourself, comparing ourselves with previous versions to the one we currently promote can reveal a host of tools to promote our path in addition to our abilities and skills, in turn it is an aspect that works as a key to self-improvement in many senses, even to improve ourselves to be better in some talent that we have wanted to be better for a long time, comparing ourselves with others does not figure because it steals our peace, because it does not work when only you are going to live with yourself for the rest of your life and also We all have different paths and stories.

-Be kind to yourself and to others, if you continually judge it is very accurate to say that the judgment that you emanate many times is even directed at you, you are your own executioner, but if you change this for generosity and kindness it is very likely that you will even begin to be with you, because it is an aspect that helps to encourage our change of vision of the world and any negative behavior and will help us to meet objectives.

Comparing yourself takes you away from your own universe, a universe where, although you are imperfect, you are powerful because day by day you work to be a better person, which also makes you a wonderful and tremendous being.

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