September brings me bittersweet memories but full of a lot of reflection and learning

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September for me has two sides, just like a coin, September a few years ago came to mean loss and life, we all have a favorite month of the year, mine without thinking about it was September and December, but life is designed to teach us lessons many times hard, that they literally take us out of the stadium, to learn, to learn to live, to value, not only people but life itself, because the only moment we have with total security is this, the now, we do not know that we it may even hold a couple of hours in the future, so hesitating, dancing, loving and living in the present is vital, it is vital to forgive, let go of everything that works like a weight under the water with the sole purpose of hurting us.

I firmly believe that we all especially love the month in which we were born and in which we celebrate one year or one less depending on the perspective life is completely ironic, it makes us love and hate at the same time, to learn, to learn to live intensely, to not to waste the opportunities that are presented to us, in short the reason is that, in this month I celebrate another year of happy and pleasant existence but my favorite month was dyed a little black, a few years ago when unexpectedly a very close relative He passed away just fifteen days before my birthday, evidently the losses, although they are a natural process of life, leave an unattainable void, that nothing and no one can replace and much more in the circumstances in which said situation occurred, because it was totally unexpected .

There are losses that can be seen coming and others that are completely unexpected that break our soul a little, this according to the fact that we could not even say goodbye or see you later, a lot of things remain pending and in the air, a lot of hugs , a lot of words, that's why losses teach, because thanks to them we can value, we can begin to add the value that our present deserves and those who are part of it, in addition to valuing the moments that come our way, learn to say goodbye, it is the greatest act of courage of the human being, it is unequivocally knowing that in the future we will meet again with our loved one, on another plane but still knowing that their energy and all the demonstrations and acts of love that they had in some point towards us will keep them alive in our minds and hearts.

When these somewhat negative things happen, we understand the value of being human, the value above all of happiness, we understand that it is not a constant but we also understand that the bitter moments do not last forever either, they are circumstantial moments of life and that we must accept them, we must welcome everything that being human entails, life and processes are not linear, they have straight, low curves but life itself does not stop being magical, it does not stop having beauty, even in pain they are pleasant moments, happy moments that lead us to accept the ups and downs of life, with time the heart heals, although the phrase time heals everything sounds embedded, it is reality, time helps us accept and continue on our way, time It would even reveal to us that the mission that all the people who have departed for eternity has ended in this world but ours is still going on, we have not yet completed or perhaps not even begun or found out what it is here the function that we come to perform.

Reality is stranger than fiction, it was exactly the phrase that defined my September in that year, one never knows what life holds tomorrow, therefore we can only enjoy and value how much or how little we have, in addition to working every day to improve, improve our lifestyle and our vision of the world, especially in suppressing hatred and ambivalence that are consuming us and are not allowing us to concentrate on everything that truly has value for our daily lives. To conclude, I want to leave as a teaching that the pain is gradually disappearing, that the problems, the anguish are not forever, that we must value every second of our life and romanticize it because it is the only one we have and in the same process exalt life. of those who accompany us daily, don't let it be too late to say I love you or just give a hug.

Happy day, thanks for reading!