Self-love is also synonymous with building oneself

One of the greatest loves that can exist throughout our lives is self-love, the love that helps us generate fruits that throughout our process can generate fullness of life, since it is something that collaborates in all areas of our life, even enjoying the daily pleasure that the little things in life offer us is even more satisfying if we first learn to love ourselves and then learn to love everything that life brings with it. Because many times we do not cultivate this and therefore we live fed up with life, uncomfortable with everything that our life represents, it makes us even accept life experiences that often generate anxiety and doubts in us, it is in these circumstances where the famous impostor syndrome which implies that it fills us with insecurities, anguish, claims against ourselves and doubts, which ends up stealing our life, since we would be letting the days go by without enjoying them as they should.

We find our true first love looking at ourselves in a mirror, nothing like putting our needs first in that same order, also making ourselves happy before putting anyone before us without first having cultivated and known self-love, love that makes us love each other as we are, even knowing and understanding that we are not perfect but that even in imperfections lies perfection, the beauty of human beings, in their warmth and the way they show empathy to others as well as themselves, because We must begin to respect ourselves, to value ourselves, to have patience with ourselves just as we have for others, because we do not find love halfway, in something or in someone, on the contrary, it is our task to find and love each other in order to promote the extraordinary things that bring this with you as self-esteem.

The love for us comes out even more on occasions where we feel deeply hurt due to life circumstances, in things that are completely out of our control, in situations that we do not control or maybe yes and it makes us feel in a comfort zone. and getting out of it costs us, up to a certain point where it already exceeds the water in the glass and we want to turn our life around and this also happens because of habits of which we are not aware that they harm us, stagnate us and prevent us from Let's flow like paying attention to what others say, think or do, governed by what they will say or by simple restrictions imposed by society, for this we must record in our minds that someone else's perspective of life is always different from ours Since it is their story, not yours, we also have to learn to give priority to our thoughts, beliefs and perspective of life before that of others.

Idealizing and romanticizing life to extremes is also another habit that robs us more than it should, since we live anchored to overthinking things, to making them see from beautiful perspectives when the reality that nothing is white and much less black always has everything. positive aspects but it also has its negative side and that does not make us unsuccessful, we all have our own time to have our things, we cannot compare our process with someone else's, when there are people who have advanced more others who are barely halfway and some that they are starting but the beautiful thing about all these groups is that they are all making them want to get there regardless of whether they advance fast or slow, the beautiful thing is that they are safe and firm steps that help to see life from a new perspective, from love own and from the happiness that this leaves us.