Life is full of first times

<In life there is always a first time but not always second chances>

The first times are undoubtedly full of magic wherever you look at it, they are situations or experiences that we undoubtedly experienced as children or even babies, our arrival in the world is unique and incomparable, they are always different stories, none of them resemble the other. Whether due to the context, time, place or space, each birth is unique and magical, therefore it is remembered even more for it because it was the first time we opened our eyes to see the world around us, perhaps in a hospital or in a room with people who helped our parents so that our arrival was in one way or another healthy without any setbacks, the first time we saw our parents, the first time we met the rest of the family. Life without a doubt is plagued by where you look at first times although some go unnoticed, people do not give it as much importance as other facts.

The first time does not only refer to sexual events on the contrary, we must be aware that throughout our lives, we have gone through events that we did for the first time, some leave a mark, others we simply do not want to remember, they do not generate as much happiness and That is why we leave them stored in the back of our memory and mind, because it is something healthy since they are facts that without a doubt just thinking about them and reliving them take away our peace, they generate a lot of troubles and feelings, such as uncertainty and sadness, which in one way or another we must leave there, because nothing compares to having a life full of love, peace, respect and empathy, although many times we have to be in places or go through not so pleasant memories but always choosing peace and calm in your heart you will be able to get out of these situations well. Always choose to feel GRATITUDE even for those unpleasant moments in life, because even deep down they happen to teach us something, somehow change the perspective with which we look at certain things, what we should never do is forget to thank God, life and the universe for rewarding experiences, these in one way or another have certain characteristics that make them completely different from the others since apart from leaving us teachings, they give us good memories and moments of happiness.

It is also absolutely gratifying to see how people who, even with disabilities that in one way or another prevent them from doing things normally, come out to fight even to take that step of doing something for the second time but at the same time it is the first time for them already that the circumstances of the situation have changed, such as people who have accidents, lose a limb. Two cases of people that I admire for this aforementioned condition are the former Colombian Queen Daniela Álvarez and the influencer Juan Pablo dos Santos, two people who are an example of resilience, struggle, perseverance, in a few words people pushed forward, who although they lost something very valuable, such as a part of their body, they did not allow themselves to be trapped by sadness, by loss, on the contrary, they decided to be spokespersons for the world, to deliver the beautiful message that although they suffered a very great loss, they decided to choose the path of happiness, of the first times, because walking again using a support that for the first time you do not know how to handle, is something hard, since they struggled a lot the first months to be able to learn to walk, never giving up and much less feeling less on the contrary, always eager and with the absolute certainty that at some point they would do much better, with practice and discipline.

Something that I believe and affirm is that you celebrate and appreciate the triumphs of the first times, although it seems to many that you are a little crazy for doing it, remember that it means much more to you than it does to them, that no one else than you has the power to know what makes you happy, what generates peace and security that you, these things are very favorable and incredible for the moments in which you feel that you can't take it anymore, where you faint because you will remember the celebration and the reason for said experience, of It will surely help you recharge your batteries to continue, so as not to faint in the process, to understand that although there are bad days there is always a ray of sunshine that illuminates it, that we must persist and never give up, you are forbidden to give up, although it is valid to give yourself space to think things through, to analyze if it is necessary to change and modify plans, because the path is not always straight, there are detours, curves, ups and downs, but it is up to you, your inner strength to achieve what you long for. s for your life, even with a single decision.

By the way, I forgot to mention the emotional field, in terms of love, the first love undoubtedly leaves a mark on our lives for life that is not erased with anything, but this is a topic that I will touch on in another blog.