life is a breath
<We would never miss a moment or experience that life gives us if we knew how short it is>
I've been a bit lost on the platform, it's that basically there are days and weeks that we deal with mixed feelings, these have secondary effects, in some people it helps them flow but in others, like in my case, it stops me a little, to think, to analyze and therefore I enter a complete block of emotions and also my creativity to write or to create anything I have to do for my work is on the floor, many will think that it is something very bad but at this point in my life and I think that these are moments that life gives me to rest, to stop to revitalize myself, to completely change my focus, to stop for a moment to just look at my actions and stop to see the world, to see others, to collaborate with them in some way , because the point definitely comes when we discover that no one reaches the goal on their own, behind all the work and effort, there are people who in one way or another have been collaborators, some fleeting it is or passengers others instead permanent, that life has brought like the sea with its waves that come and go.
This was especially a week to reflect, regarding how fleeting life is, suddenly we are here and the next second of the day we are no longer there, although we think that we have bought life, it is a false idealism, because regardless of whether you are young or greater we are all exposed to saying goodbye to the world when we least expect it, because that is life, we know the day we arrive but the day that corresponds to us to leave and say goodbye is never revealed to us. As I said, not only we are exposed to these laws of life, but also our loved ones, known and unknown, the unfortunate thing is that some are unexpected losses, hard goodbyes and full of sadness and melancholy, due to the circumstances in which the events happened. , because they were relatively young people with a future ahead of them, who still think they lacked many things to live and experience, others on the contrary because there is so much love and affection that we never want them to leave our side.
I have analyzed a lot this week the losses and departures of life because many acquaintances have had to leave for another plane or eternity, all in various circumstances, such as illness, old age or the most unfortunate due to accidents, fatal accidents that end lives of young people, dreamers with a bright future ahead but who unfortunately have already served their time in this world, now it is time to learn to live with absences, but knowing that their spirit and soul in one way or another will remain in the souls and hearts of all those who once shared with them, thanks to them I was able to understand that life is a little while that we have to live it to the fullest, without limiting ourselves by what they will say, to measure ourselves and to follow the rules that others impose, on the contrary, create our own rules to follow, always follow what our heart dictates, the only universal rule that we should all have anchored in our lives is "DO NOTHING YOU CAN DAMAGE OR HURT OTHERS” or in a nutshell not to do to anyone what we would not like them to do to us.
Do not get bogged down in the unpleasant things that unfortunately you have had to go through, have the courage to leave them behind, to overcome them, to follow your path to find what truly lights up your soul, what instead of bringing tears fills you with happiness. , smiles and above all fullness, because life is a sigh we do not know when or how the moment will be when we have to leave this world, the only thing that we will take that day will be the memories, the experiences and the teachings that at some point given that we have gone through, therefore they are anchored in our hearts and in our lives.
It is enough to stop one day all the chaos that is lived daily to analyze and think about everything we are doing, if we are on the right track or on the contrary the path we have decided to travel is not leading to anything, it is the perfect time to change approach, it is enough to change a little perspective to begin to see life differently. It is valid to get tired, to take a break, but what will never be valid is to give up, not to fight to turn our wishes and dreams into realities, therefore the best option in these moments of crisis is to take a break, give ourselves a pause to learn and unlearn. things that undoubtedly are not making us flow. Enjoy all the moments that come your way, enjoy the stage, enjoy the things that are there, but above all give yourself the opportunity to meet and include in your environment people who join you, who fill you with vitality, who help you get there. to the goal, people who do not anchor you but who move with you freely, who are empathic, who understand, that each person is a different universe that each one has a network of beliefs, experiential systems and diverse cultures but that even so always they will have something good to contribute and that we will also contribute only positive aspects to their lives.
Life is short, so do not be afraid to forgive, to give a stranger or a loved one a gesture of cordiality, a smile, a hug, an apology, a help, these are gestures that without a doubt can even improve the day of the people. It was a hard week in terms of emotions for me, but it is better to experience them to the fullest than to live with all those emotions anchored to my soul, making it bleed a little more every day, when it was in my hands to reach the state of fullness even allowing myself experience those destabilizing moments that undoubtedly make me much stronger, that although I am not perfect, that although I have my virtues I must also admit that I make mistakes that sometimes get out of hand, but I always look for a way to amend them, I look for a way to go through those destabilizing processes that life puts me in front of because I am certain that in the end I will be victorious with a great lesson to narrate through my writings and to whoever can help, because that is passionate life, with ups and downs but that without a doubt fill us with much more desire to get ahead and show that nothing scares us anymore.
