Law of life; Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, but you definitely learn from everything.

<Letting go of who you are brings you significantly closer to who you want to be>

Life does not come to us with a manual that helps us to know everything for sure, on the contrary, the manual that will govern our lives is created by us as time goes by, also as the years go by, also according to the experiences and experiences that we collect, so it does not matter if they are good or bad, regardless of the color they bring, they always leave us with at least something positive because they give us strength and life experience, although learning is a significantly hard process when there are no aspects Of course, many times we suffer for not accepting things, for not accepting that not everything is under our control, that we must let go, that we must even ask ourselves if it is fear that brings us or on the contrary it is the desire to want to dominate everything, unfortunately not being able to let go of control, not being able to put domination aside can bring serious consequences to our lives, because it can even cause anxiety and depression. ones.

<Peace can only be obtained by granting forgiveness, forgiveness brings us even more positive aspects because forgiving those who have done us some kind of harm does not free them, it frees us for being able to have and fabricate negative thoughts to give way to the peace, tranquility and calm that a pardon leaves>

Deep down we keep many emotions, some help us to flow and go along the paths of life collecting everything wonderful that the world has to offer us, others instead leave us with a bitter taste, a taste that will not go away from our life if we do not particularly we let it go, this sometimes escapes our absolute control because we keep in the depths of our being grudges and hatred that unfortunately imprison us, to get out of that prison we must be sure that we want to do it, we must look for the opportunity to change , change only comes to our lives if we decide so, so in addition to seeking to follow our dreams and goals, but also looking for ways to improve everything that unfortunately is tying us to an empty life, full as I said before of anxieties and even that it can end in depression, for not listening in time to the signals that our body involuntarily gives us to accept once and for all It is that we must accept and work to achieve a satisfactory change in our lives.

Accepting that life has its pros and cons is not easy and simple for everyone to process, it is something extremely normal, we all have our time, but it is alarming to spend a lifetime mired in past situations that no longer have an opportunity in our present and much except in our future, all this is due to the control that we give to the situations in our life. That is why I want to leave you with the meaning of having control, because it is a multifaceted word, that is, it is used in many areas and these in turn gave it a different meaning, therefore, below I explain what emotional control is:

“It is a capacity that all human beings possess, and it is even more of a quality, since thanks to it we can positively manage any emotion that we are feeling”

Therefore it is so important to be able to manage our emotions so that in the long run we can cultivate affective responsibility, which not only serves us in the love field, affective responsibility and emotional intelligence are undoubtedly relevant and necessary in any field, thanks to them we can manage emotions at times when circumstances unfortunately do not happen as we expect, thanks to them in part we can have and choose the ability to resolve issues that, although they are hurting us, may have an acceptable ending although not the one we thought but one that with great intelligence we were able to accept and process in the best possible way.

We have all experienced circumstances that really overwhelm us because they do not happen as we think and expect, although in the first opportunities we are people with more expectations, people who are unfortunately dominant, unable at first to let go of control, control that unfortunately in Many circumstances, such as the first times in life, play tricks on us, because, as we read before, when we do something for the first time, unfortunately, we do not have any experience that allows us to have a guide, on the contrary, we enter a world blindly, a world in which the best teacher that we can have is the error, because in the failures we find the manual that we need for later on for other situations that life will put us, letting go of control allows us to know that making mistakes on various occasions does not make us and much less does it pigeonhole us into being ignorant, on the contrary, making a mistake is wise because thanks ias we can have a reference for the future that also allows us an advantage in terms of having a more open mind and supporting those who need and want to walk a path similar to ours through our example of life.

The advice is to let go, living in the past deprives us, deprives us of many wonderful things that try to land in our lives but do not succeed because we deny access, it is not only advice for a specific area, on the contrary, it is a advice that helps us in any field, it was difficult for me in particular to let go in the field of love until I understood that nothing is forever, that we are all incredible but not all of us are made to fit in, some are fleeting but that nevertheless it will always leave a message well in our life, therefore although at one point in my life I suffered for someone, that person had a great message to leave only that I was not able to see it until I understood that there are laws of life and that there are good and bad things but they all come with the aim of teaching us to be better people and to grow emotionally.

Believe in you, because there are situations that we falsely think define us but it is wrong, only we can do it, nothing and no one has that power, because even if we are sensitive we are strong and wonderful people capable of overcoming thousands of storms to be able to learn and inevitably arrive to the goal of our life.

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