It was a week full of learning
<The respect you give to others is a clear reflection of your own>
A very busy week with many events, but I want to make special reference to a case that we saw worldwide, which loudly from all perspectives calls on humanity to put aside the signaling because we do not know how it will affect and will influence the self-esteem even in the mental health of said person, even if they are comments that are not intended to hurt, they do so automatically because they touch very sensitive fibers, such as the physical, some condition or disability that makes the person different, because it costs a world manage to accept us as we are and in a second that can be broken thanks to the actions or words of people, even perhaps the words more because they have the power to stay in your mind, it is something you do not control or do not know how to do , but nevertheless they wander negatively in our mind creating irreversible damage.
It is a fact that totally leads to reflection, I had not written or talked about it, because at the moment the facts are not scaled well, it is something so fresh that we stick to the stories or comments that we find out there, but the truth is that we must be able to see well beyond our noses, have a critical mind to be able to see the events and then whether to take sides for any of those affected, although personally I firmly believe that we should not get involved in people's lives, that includes the famous, because even behind those perfect people there is a life with ups and downs, we don't know if they laugh or cry like the song of the famous salsa singer, they are events that happen to learn from them, to set an example for all of us that we should change about leaving comments even if they had no intention to hurt, put violence aside, violence leads nowhere but hate and resentment.
There were five minutes where there were a lot of mixed feelings, such as laughter, anger, rage, tears and regret, a clear example of people who initially want to attract attention even at the expense of others, because none of them cared for the others more than for themselves. themselves, a clear example of the world, of what many are today, because it is good to think of ourselves first, to seek our happiness and our success, but it is better to do it without harming anyone, without taking others away, or hurt them in the process, because once again I reiterate and affirm even from personal experience that words hurt more than blows, because they stay in your mind and in one way or another transform, carrying in their wake a lifetime of security and a good self-esteem that has been built, they change everything good for feelings that are not good, such as hatred, insecurity, sadness and resentment.
A clear sign that people need to keep unhealthy comments to themselves that they even believe will not harm anyone, even more so if they point out something in their physique or some disability that makes them different, because today you point out but you don't know what could happen to your life. tomorrow, because that is karma, my grandmother always gave me advice that I will never forget to this day and that is that in my walk through life I saw what I saw, I should not point fingers or judge anyone, because our future It is the most uncertain there is, in the end we have nothing bought, nor will we know how the end will be. The most unfortunate thing is that we see that today the world is very superficial, people only care about the physical, not the beauty that lives inside people, they do not know what hurts and leave traces words that do not even have the intention to hurt , particularly it has happened to me, because I am a skinny person, we see in the world as people of normal build, they criticize many, but when they see someone fatter or skinnier, they do not take long to make comments like how more or just this person does not eat and therefore suffers from some disease or eating disorder, when this is not the case there are conditions of the human body, which even if you eat a lot prevent you from having a normal complexion, but that is not a reason for ridicule and it does not make us bad people me and us.
With this I am only on the side of doing or that our actions are always directed from love, thinking about how it can affect people, because many times we only know the outside but not the inside, nor what has been their struggle to be seen. so strong, much less will we know if it affected a little or caused their self-esteem to collapse creating many questions and doubts, that even if these things happen it is better to let others know that they are acting badly through good words than not to reach violence, violence only speaks of the person who is initiating it, let us be promoters of peace, union, love but above all empathy, putting ourselves in the place of the other person, all the effort he made to show himself as he is to the world, he really deserves applause, it is admirable because not everyone does it, it is admirable even to recognize that we have failed and we saw that clearly in all parts of this case, I just hope that we take this as an example example, although foreign n but that undoubtedly helps Change your perspective and open your mind.
