Is the best way to learn in life through mistakes?

<May what we have lived teach us but may it never be a reason to stop>

We all made and continue to make mistakes, it is something that no one is saved from, we do not come into this world with a manual on how to do everything perfectly, on the contrary we are imperfect beings, full of both virtues and defects, therefore we must always have It is clear that before judging ourselves or judging others for some bad act that mistakes are the great teacher that the human being has, it is an aspect because through this we undoubtedly manage to evolve without restraint over any circumstance as much as people as individuals. As I mentioned before, no one is born and knows everything, on the contrary our parents are our first great teachers of life, they also teach us a great method which undoubtedly serves us for life and everything in life, which is the method from trial/error, from this we get our own manual that allows us to know how to act before x or y circumstance.

<From mistakes we learn without a doubt but it is impossible to do it if we fall into the same behavior or if we do not recognize and admit that we have made a mistake, we should not be afraid of doing it, this does not make us ignorant, on the contrary, it makes us wiser and learners of life>

Many of the experiences that we will have, have had or are living involve third parties, that is to say, in one way or another they leave a little hurt or splashed by our way of acting, therefore we must plant in ourselves the seed of recognizing, of asking Sorry, to assume our ravines when necessary, because the act of committing them is something natural in human beings, but recognizing them without a doubt is for brave people, for strong people, for people who seek to be better every day, for people who do not want to hurt to anyone not knowingly and much less unintentionally, therefore definitely people who know how to recognize and correct when they fail deserve respect and admiration. The nature of the human being hates various things such as criticism even though they have nothing negative and are entirely constructive, on many occasions the fact that they give us one of these is a trigger to get angry and upset, aspects that we need to work on, we need to get out of our life these habits that do not allow us to reason, or see clearly when words are directed with love towards us because it comes from people who do not want to see us badly, on the contrary, they want us to be better people, prosperous, recognizing this and in general everything in what we fail day by day, also assuming to ask for forgiveness when necessary is undoubtedly the healthiest exercise in life that we can be adding to our lives, it generates peace, happiness and fulfillment with life and towards ourselves.

Now, I want to comment on some of the aspects that prevent people from recognizing their negative acts to themselves and to others, is that they may be going through very low or negative moments in their lives or have a very low self-esteem, many will think? Why self-esteem? Well, since we were little we learn many things that undoubtedly do not help us grow as a person, that in adulthood we must try to unlearn all the beliefs and customs that are sinking us, one of them is that "making mistakes it's bad” they scold us, punish us, up to a certain point it's fine, it's valid, but it's invalid that they judge or point us out or, failing that, make us feel like bad or unworthy people who don't deserve affection, love, affection and understanding, in any aspect of life, therefore it is a part of self-esteem that has not yet been built as it should be because any human being needs to have a good image of himself, but together with this we must accept r that we have both positive and valuable qualities as well as negative ones but that we can improve and change, because in life everything can be transformed.

<A person who never dared to commit an act that resulted in a mistake never dared to try anything new and give a new meaning to his life>

Another aspect that is instilled in us from a very young age and that we learn is perfectionism, an aspect that elevates our ego, therefore it does not allow us to recognize or accept that we make mistakes, because we think that we are acting correctly all the time, having this kind of aspect in our life without a doubt will make us think and see the world from dichotomous perspectives, that is, to think that there is only black and white that there are no shades, when in reality the world is of many colors, there are many aspects that encompass we cannot focus on two, because we would be limiting ourselves, not accepting the nature of the human being, not accepting ourselves, being completely inflexible with ourselves.

We must never recriminate or judge ourselves, we must not even blame ourselves but on the other hand we must take responsibility for any act that we have or are going to commit, we must not pass the blame on to someone else when the one who acted was you, therefore we must always improve, know how to recognize which areas of our lives we have to change, which require work on our part in one way or another. Freedom has many perspectives, it is not only being free outside four walls, freedom depends on the perspective you give it, it can refer to many things, among them we must give ourselves and give others freedom to make mistakes, freedom It is part of respect, of respecting ourselves, of not judging ourselves and much less judging others, because it is in everyone's nature to make mistakes, because the only path that we will find towards emotional maturity lies in the flexibility of assuming and err.

<Your best teacher in this world is the mistake and mistake made>

Never forget that error is an essential part of the path, we must learn to unlearn the value that we have given to it, giving it a merely negative conception, because through it we manage to improve, committing any act that does not go as expected is the previous step for learning, to become a little wiser, because in these actions that we say to take we find the clarification of the true path that we must take, that is, it allows us to completely clear our mind to be able to say yes to the path of happiness and totally discard the path of frustration, therefore it will never be a failure, it will always be a springboard to do things well in the future, learning and making mistakes is human, don't forget that.

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