In life you lose but you also win

Many times we are presented with many experiences that we confuse with opportunities, but even if they are not, they are enriching experiences that shape us to true opportunities, they truly teach us to connect with ourselves, to know and understand that life is a boomerang that not always everything that is presented to us on a silver platter are true opportunities that are convenient for us, but even if these are not the most appropriate, the true ones, those that are convenient for us, help us, both to grow personally and in the perspective that we give to life are very important in our lives, because to do things fairly well you have to go through endless good experiences and not so much, but the positive thing that they offer us and leave our lives is teaching, to believe in actions and not in words, to truly know who is with you when you are good stretches of your life and even more to know and understand who is when you are for Going through stormy moments, hard moments, the only thing clear that we must always have is that we come to this life to complete learning cycles and in that same process unlearn things that only bind us and distance us from the essence of our life.

Personally, this week that is passing and moving away from our lives little by little has become a week where I have learned about many aspects of my life, not only personally but also at work, accepting that there are things that more than we force them, they don't happen, because they simply aren't for one, or it's not the right time, but even if it is something that we want and yearn for at the time, we must accept that it is not the time for it in our lives and continue, with the hope and faith that what is to come will be much better than what we lost, because in my spirit there is only room to let flourish what will truly bring many beautiful and positive things to my life, leaving aside what is stealing my peace and instead of making me grow, it is anchoring me to a place where I am becoming a person that I do not want to be, just to please others, so we must always be very clear that we are the most important thing in our lives. , that we have to work based on ourselves, on our happiness, but on any aspect of life on our peace of mind, because if something does not make you happy and is turning your life into hell little by little we must let go of it and leave it altogether freedom, both to it and to us.

Freedom is really overvalued, many times it is associated with things that really do not have the same relevance and importance as those that really should be given priority such as our peace of mind, and even unconsciously we direct our lives to things that trigger anxieties, sadness, that make us have bad moments in terms of our mental health when we should be in search of things that truly do us good, fill us with infinitely positive things and not with emptiness and doubts, it is something that we should constantly work on to be more aware of everything that is good for us and also of what is not, to improve it or try by all means to remove it, in order to give space to what is truly good for us. One of the great basic aspects that we must plant to see it flourish later on is self-love, since it is a very valuable and invaluable tool for our lives since it will help us to see things with much more clarity in circumstances that are taking away more of us. what they are generating for us, everything is up to you, that is why you must work towards cultivating this day by day, because not only will it be of great help with the aforementioned, on the contrary, in it you will find courage, strength and patience for your life, as well as you will be able to see that you are a great human being that everyone who has the opportunity to meet you is lucky because you are a great person who touches the lives of others through their good deeds and their great perspective on life.

That is why today I want to tell you to trust in your process, to never lose faith or hope, that although today you feel frustrated by something that is not going well, it will not be forever, sooner rather than later it will be solved, perhaps staying and adapting to you or perhaps leaving because something positive is only giving you headaches, you deserve much more, it is something that applies to everything, for love, for family, for friends, for colleagues and in the workplace. So never try to retain something that is no longer working for you, let things flow because that situation and person may not be for you and it must flow to reach its destination but it must also flow to make way for what truly belongs. to you, to your life. Add to your life things that truly do you good, give meaning and value to your life, do not leave aside self-love, because in it is the key to valuing yourself to realize that although you are not perfect, you are worth it, because you are a great person and human being who only seeks his happiness and work towards everything he dreams of. Don't get frustrated either because something didn't happen as planned, be grateful for that experience and look forward to what truly belongs to you, without despairing because what is for you will never be lacking and what is not will automatically flow and if you have to leave teaching that does it but that does not last longer than it should in your life, that it be an appetizer of the incredible that it will be in the near future.

Never lose faith, the best things take time