happiness and meaning of life

<Happiness is very similar and works like a butterfly, the more you chase it the more it will evade you but if you stay still and let yourself go, it will come to you>

We are all so unique that happiness does not work or does not mean the same thing for everyone, on the contrary like everything that is part of our life, we give it our personal touch, because what makes me happy may not be the same as what makes you happy works just like success, it is diverse and it is good, it is valid to look at life from our perspective because it is a reflection of our essence of what we are as human beings. Beatitude is such a different word for everyone, because not everyone gives it the same meaning, although the meaning of life and the aforementioned are experiences that we came to face that go hand in hand, since the first is basically the that we always look for, even if it is for moments, since it gives us a positive emotional state and the second is the fullness that we have with our life, with our body and with everything that surrounds us, for this reason we should be more aware, because it is clear that although the life is incredibly wonderful it always comes full of nuances, although we would like every day to be full of happy and incredible moments, there will always be those that completely lower our spirits, but this is not synonymous that life will always be like that on the contrary those moments they come to us to strengthen us, to fill us with vitality but above all so that we learn, they bring us lessons that perhaps at the time we could not see but the v ida is always in charge of giving us reasons and explanations that we did not understand at the time.

The best way to find happiness, what makes us happy and gives meaning to our lives, is to venture out on the best trip of our lives, it is to give ourselves the opportunity to get to know each other, even if it seems easy, it is not such a difficult path. easy, because we must become more aware of our actions, what motivates them, about our tastes, but above all what we would never do and much less would like to be done to us, take a trip to the root of our being, our inner self, know each other but above all respect ourselves, our beliefs, tastes and indistinct way of doing anything, not stopping doing everything that makes us happy just to please others, always being faithful to us, putting ourselves first, because We come to this world to make ourselves happy, to seek happiness, to be well with ourselves, so that later in this process and to the extent that we can collaborate in the happiness of others, always trying to be light in their lives. days before darkness, but to get to that point at some point in our life, worth the redundancy, we will come to the conclusion that we want to change certain aspects that are not good for us and do not contribute to our happy or positive life, much less to that of others. For this reason, the rest of us must take a break from the world, to give ourselves and allow ourselves the pleasure of changing everything that robs us of serenity, everything is a matter of us, of doing first what makes us happy but above all makes us live a full life.

All opinions are valid, but for that reason we will not give ourselves the task of judging the neighbor because he thinks and acts differently, we must give ourselves the freedom to live together, respect but above all learn from everyone who is in our life, because nothing is coincidence , everything has a reason, as well as a cause and effect, we always do our actions from love, empathy and not hate, hate only attracts more negative things to our lives, we must be able to love in complete freedom, not holding back, much less making that love forceful and not pure and reciprocal, because there is nothing more beautiful than that which occurs naturally, that which flows like the waves of the sea, gives happiness but also gives satisfaction, serenity, peace and calm to know and understand that it is true but above all it is sincere and pure because we will never find something better than what is sincere, from the experiences, things, and people that life puts us on the road. We must take advantage of today, the present is all we have as well as we only have one life but if we decide to live it to the fullest, leaving aside grudges living every day to look for what even gives us a moment of happiness and directionality to our life it is more than enough, never stop valuing things, because there are more times that we take many things for granted and do not value what we have, the people who are constantly giving us their love and their valuable time, do not let time disappear of your hands, because many times time is a euphemism, we say that we have a lot of time and we take for granted that we are and those around us are eternal, when it is not so, we are all human and at some point we must say goodbye for dare to say I love you, to give a hug, to support someone in your environment who always does it with you and now needs the same from you because in those actions that seem like little to many, they are l so they give us more and above all satisfaction.

If you ask me what happiness is and what gives meaning to my life, I can translate it into a single word, my family, the love that those people who are there for me at every moment of my life give me every day. , that even if I have a tremendous problem they would never leave me alone, their support is proof that if love exists, regardless of any condition, the second thing that gives meaning to my life is myself, the experiences that I allow myself daily living makes me grow but above all I strengthen myself as a person, definitely today I could not agree more with that phrase that says that "self-love cures everything", it erases the traces of those who at some point hurt us as well as it also gives us love, trust, serenity, peace, calm, but above all security and full confidence in ourselves, it is something that since I began to cultivate it I have not tired of feeding it daily, it allows me to see life in other perspectives, to give myself count things many times they are not what you see at first sight, that there is much more than a facade, the clear example is when we choose a book or not only because of the beauty of its "cover" it taught me that judging is never the solution, the solution It lies in being part of those who solve and look for options to any problem that comes across, self-esteem gave me the strength I needed to understand that happiness lives within me and it is only up to me to find it and live constantly in it, never forget that it is something that depends only on you and no one else, that you can be happy with someone else as long as you first discover that happiness has always inhabited you and you took the step to always be.

In conclusion, the meaning of life for me is my family and my happiness has a lot to do with self-esteem and with myself. For you, what is your happiness and what is the meaning of your life?