Goodbye to sexuality as a taboo subject and welcome the information to prevent adolescents

<<Sexuality is an inevitable stage that you must face at some point in life, but the only thing you must take into consideration is that you must take precautions to make it a pleasant and safe experience>>

As it is public information, there are men and women, two types of beings, although human, they share different, diverse biological and physiological characteristics, and sexuality is a common but diverse reference, according to the specific gender, they are aspects that have taught to avoid but above all that we have been taught to associate them with shame, as if they were topics that violate all protocols when they are necessary topics for human development and development, misinformation especially for those little ones who are entering, living the stage of adolescence is of vital importance, it is an axis so that they can know the pros and cons of starting at an early age with a sexuality, unfortunately many are not prepared, they do it mainly because of the alternate comments that they usually hear, especially from people their own age who comment and talk but do not really know the background and the damage it can cause Using such information by disseminating it, we can mainly deduce that the main cause for initiating a sexuality without responsibility is misinformation, first from home, since parents should and have the responsibility of guiding their children on their shoulders, therefore It is necessary little by little to begin to promote visions of what a safe sexuality is, in addition to the consequences that starting it without prevention could entail.

Fortunately, the world has changed, the rates of disinformation are no longer what they used to be, now everything depends on each person if they help themselves through information, because as I said there are various means through which we can quench doubts, especially for those who do not have who consult these basic issues, this happens when parents, instead of playing the role with understanding and empathy, play the role of executioners and judges, thus creating an abyss with their child, a gap in a relationship that as parents they must foster and care for, This is in accordance with the fact that children are often afraid to address them because they end up avoiding them when they notice their intentions, although the relationship should be dictated mainly by respect, but sometimes parents should loosen the reins a bit, leaving behind the role of dictators, to become a friend, a friend who understands that not everything is perfect, that we all make mistakes, that our parents and children are not except but even if it happens we will always be there to help, but by offering a helping hand we can build another facet, where they can find comfort, but also where children have enough confidence to ask for help, because although it is true the internet has revolutionized the world There is nothing like finding information and comfort in a family arm and what better than in that of parents or children.

Adolescence is an extremely vulnerable stage, all of us who have gone through the process know that it is a hard stage, it is a stage that literally means suffering, which in turn is "lacking", now they will wonder what we lack, because we mainly lack of a psychologically speaking balanced and healthy mind, according to the fact that we initiate many processes, many changes including physical, hormonal and psychological, it is a controversial issue because it is evident that we begin to mature, we begin a stage of metamorphosis that ends in a where our children's body has remained in the past, obviously giving way to the body of a more mature man or woman that awaits us, it is a hard and controversial process, because we idealize what we want to have and in many cases we undervalue what we have, hiding it and not coming to cultivate the most precious thing for the human being, self-love, which gives us acceptance, leads us to love every fiber of who we are, we are with building and representing obviously ignoring and rejecting wanting to be another person, because we are already one, we have a unique essence that we can stimulate so that it becomes our greatest strength, I clarify that this does not happen to everyone there are those who love what they become from a At the beginning, both visions are accepted and obviously everything depends on the process and the tools that each person has.

This is a stage where human beings must definitely be accompanied, it is a stage where adolescents need a lot of understanding, tolerance and empathy, they are processes where rebellion traps them, consumes them and blinds them, let us also remember that these are stages where they are forging their identity and their character, are stages that they do not understand and many of the processes that they live consume them, in turn they give them the perspective that life is very complex when really they are forming a whole labyrinth in their heads, as parents, relatives or friends we must advise them but always letting them be the ones to take the initiative, we must let them accept that they are experiencing changes in their body shape, as I mentioned earlier, leaving childhood aside and incorporating a sexual one, obviously we are men and women but it is impossible to cover the sun with a finger and not accept that the world is diverse and that love is love from any perspective, therefore We must accept that there are loves and tastes of all kinds, accepting it for the person who is feeling it and living it is a challenge, so try to be understanding, the processes are not as easy as it seems, the background is much more critical in occasions than we think, it is also a somewhat complicated stage because we understand other facets that are human but stigmatize such as sexuality, orientation and the desire that this brings, are aspects that we must expand so that young people know what they are feeling and they can handle it.

The information will help us avoid and prevent young people on board and young people in general from contracting sexually transmitted diseases, they are scandalous issues but they must be addressed because they are normal, they are part of what human beings are, for this reason we must understand that Some sexually transmitted diseases can even be fatal, they can cause irreversible damage, they can put an end to the normality of our life to even turn it into hell, on the other hand, women have double risk because we can contract STDs but we can also become pregnant or pregnant , although it is not a deadly aspect like STDs but it can end our adolescence to become responsible adults not only for one life but for two, the ideal is to protect yourself, protect yourself from bringing lives that although it is unfortunate to expose it is not the right time , because we are still dependent on our parents, we do not have work and profession to be able to generate a good ho garter that creature, for this reason we must always take into account that we want to initiate sexual life or have an encounter, because although pleasure is part of what generates well-being for the human being, we must do it responsibly, today 09/26 the day to raise awareness about unwanted pregnancies, pregnancies that have been mainly due to misinformation, for not knowing contraceptive methods and even by people who get carried away by others, but unfortunately the product is an innocent baby, someone who is not to blame for their parents do not have enough to give her a good home because many encounters are even fortuitous, where although it is painful to write and say it, the man ends up abandoning and leaving the woman alone.

If you are a parent and your children are young, build good relationships so that in the near future they can talk about everything and especially sexuality, which is a vital issue so as not to make mistakes. If you have teenagers, talk to them, don't be afraid, talk to them. Regarding contraceptive methods, the main one we all know, condoms, in addition to preventing pregnancies, also help to keep sexually transmitted diseases at a distance. On the contrary, if you are a teenager, I can only send you a message of empathy but also the advice that you inform yourself, do not nothing without first knowing the pros and cons, remember that the most affected will always be you and you must ensure your well-being in every way.

Thank you for reading!