Friends the family that one chooses and that life gives us

<Friendships are a treasure, they are rare, difficult and even more incomprehensible than love, that is why we must fight for those that are worth it at the bottom of our hearts>

A friend is with whom you build a reciprocal relationship, that is, with whom you maintain a relationship based on friendship and trust, whose outstanding aspects are loyalty, sincerity, empathy, respect, solidarity, understanding and unconditional support, values ​​that we all possess and that determines the course of friendships, but even more decisive is to see how relationships flow as time progresses and that often puts us to the test, that is, when we go through positive things everyone is there but when destiny puts a test, a difficult moment, the first perspective is to see everything from the negative field, but as time goes by that changes, becoming a test that gave us strength but also a realization, awareness of our environment, that is to say, these moments of life probably frighten weak people, people who are not completely honest with us and leave only true friends, those who do not or they judge, they do not point and they are at all times supporting, being understanding and providing solutions.

<Quality before quality applies especially to friendships>

As time progresses, there are more doubts and questions about human behavior but especially the behavior that exists when people relate to each other and in turn establish ties, specifically they have revealed that when we are around 20 we are more social, it is say that we love to mix more, regardless of the environments, this is especially because we are learning, learning our tastes and in turn from those people that we are not afraid to meet and that life is putting us in front, but as the time between the mid-20s and 30s, our desire to mix with everyone decreases, because the stage where we want to mix with everyone without caring about any distinction has already been completed, acquiring a new aspect and that is to be selective, selective to the time to take a new friendship, the journey that life gives us, through enriching experiences to some does not happen in vain on the contrary ary, makes us more demanding when it comes to entering a new person into our lives, more careful, because we want long and lasting relationships not fleeting and much less due to interests.

The importance of the bonds that we create with others, that generate a friendship, we give it even more meaning depending on the stage we are going through and also the years that pass. At first our first friends are definitely our parents, the figures that embody the highest authority in our lives, then we include our teachers, in turn one or another child with whom we get along in the early stages of life, who They allow to develop individuality, empathy, love, understanding, tolerance, generosity and even social skills that are undoubtedly the basis for establishing future relationships, after that in adolescence, creating ties with other people will even be a bulwark to determine our flourishing personality and even habits, therefore if you are a parent help your child to choose friends, do not impose but you must guide him, so that he can find good people, on the contrary if you are a teenager and you are reading this, remember that you are a reflection of the people with whom you are related, this is not for you to make ugly to anyone, on the contrary, you can deal with everyone two but you must be selective, remember the famous phrase of those who rub shoulders with successful people in 90% will end up like them being successful, because they are a source of inspiration and example to seek to be better every day.

Life is like a kitchen recipe and one of the ingredients that gives it the most seasoning are the people that make up and surround us, not only in love, family but also friends, who will always be there, who are even capable of going through flames. of fire in order to help us and be our accomplices today especially as every year the day of the friend is celebrated, a friend is synonymous with complicity, people with the ability to bring us happiness only thanks to the ability to have crossed our path, I tell curiosities about today's celebration, it is not a date or event that is celebrated in many countries, it was born mainly in Argentina and then it was acquired by several countries, including my country Venezuela, others in the region and even Spain, although there is another date in which more countries celebrate this day also which is August 7, it is definitely something special in everyone's life that deserves to be celebrated every day, because you have to daily gratitude that we have on our side wonderful people capable of rejoicing our existence with their occurrences, people who become family and people who we know will not abandon us, who will guide us on our way.

Take care of your friends and your special people, never be embarrassed to fight to have them in your life if they contribute to your happiness!

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