Failure, its prospects, how to overcome it

<<Perfection is a complete illusion created by the human being, we must understand that failure will always be part of our cycles and stages in life that failure has different faces and one of them teaches us that it is not so bad because opens doors, doors to open our minds and our beliefs more, learning that every failure that comes into our lives always brings teachings>>

We all run away from this word, but something I have learned throughout my 21 years is that we must face everything that produces negative feelings and behaviors that wear us down physically and mentally, the best way is to understand that we are all exposed throughout of our life to make mistakes, that they will not condemn us for it, that we will do it ourselves if we live eternally immersed in that life situation, overcoming stages goes hand in hand with these cycles called failures. First of all let's make it clear what this means for everyone

"It is a certain event that does not turn out as we expected, in short it is a decisive and even temporary fact of our lives that does not turn out as we planned"

The certain "failures" we are feeling and living even from young stages, but the difference of living a failure in the aforementioned stage compared to living a failure in the adult stage, is that when we are young / children / small we always tend to overcome everything quickly, we get up and look for alternatives to this situation but when we grow up we tend to acquire perfectionist beliefs that is to say that we falsely think that "everything we do and say must always be perfect, we must never be wrong" the saddest thing is that the worst judges of all our actions are not others, the worst executioner that a person can have lives in himself, therefore we must understand that we are changing beings, who make mistakes but get up, always seeking to improve that we must be flexible with ourselves and embrace the changing nature that dwells in each one, which is completely genuine and different has no comparison with someone else's.

<You learn from mistakes and failures>

One of the worst mistakes that we human beings make is that we associate and compare failure with shame, when they have nothing to do with it, when the differences are seen millions of light years away because our belief system tells us that failure is and will be a negative result but it is not like that, we must try to change, improve that whole system, renewing beliefs that bind us, that do not encourage us to grow, on the contrary, it wants to keep us on the ground, because failure only indicates that you are a challenging person, that seeks to improve, that you are brave in trying to overcome any limit and obstacle to try to fight to get everything you want and that in one way or another you feel worthy of it. The world needs more empathy and understanding, but before giving it, it is necessary to start sowing it and nurturing it for ourselves, because living in frustration for things that happened in the past that have nothing to do with our present or future is binding us. , because no failure in love, work, family, friendship or in any area that you have experienced defines your whole life, do not condemn yourself for the rest of your life, on the contrary, turn these experiences into strengths, into points of example to follow and avoid the same mistakes.

<Failure is inevitable in any human being, leave the ego aside, because no one is the exception to this rule, not even the great and famous inventors that have existed throughout history, at first they achieved that their inventions and works were perfect>

Therefore, do not let anything allow you to be on the ground or in a duel for longer than necessary, have the faith and resilience to know that it is better to get up, continue and fight because the best things are always those that are yet to come to our life, another important point is to forgive ourselves, it is to put aside grudges and reproaches towards us, we must be confident that this experience had to happen for us to learn, because each fall undoubtedly comes equipped with wisdom and experience that will help us in situations that are yet to come. come, we must also try to adopt the attitude of when we were little, an attitude that we must foster throughout our lives, because it does not allow us to always be submerged in sorrow, on the contrary, it urges us to be better and look for ways out in any situation and circumstance.

Personally, I have been a person who has learned to live with failure. I think it is better that life makes us go through these situations quickly and cheaply, because in various circumstances we are not only investing money but also the most important thing that can be done. give someone or something valuable time that does not come back, much less recover, therefore I have been a faithful believer that everything that happens at some point happens for something and is even more welcome in my life as long as it comes to teach me but above all increase my faith and my resilience because I know that everything that comes will be much better than what I lost one day.

What do you think about failures, how do you assume them?

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