Does infatuation last forever or does it end?

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<Love and infatuation, although they are similar feelings, but they are very different>

Today we are rich in multiple aspects and I am not talking about matter, I am talking about the fact that there are many theories and answers that before in other centuries had not been, nor had they been created, perhaps yes, but they were not given the merit and importance that we should or there is even more freedom to express ourselves openly referring to certain topics such as love, that in past times something totally different from what we see today was experienced, we can know that new theories and tools exist and are being developed in reference to love, such as the affective responsibility, perhaps it is something that perhaps many do not know, because as I said they are tools that have emerged today but that undoubtedly contribute more to the way in which we love others as well as ourselves, as well as contributes to our happiness since it allows us to take responsibility for our actions and emotions with respect to our love and sentimental relationships, drawing limits especially in relationships referring to what we would not tolerate from the other person in a relationship, creating a communication where everything is expressed through words in a good way without offending anyone, much less reaching violence and also taking responsibility and assimilating the consequences of our actions, assuming our actions and the questioning that these actions do not affect the other, in short, there are many tools that are within our reach today, that we could even include in our lives, in the process of relationships that we live to love responsibly, however, if you don't want to include them in your life, it is really nice that you know them, because it makes us more cultured and wise, because if they don't serve us, someone around us can, and you can in some way. help them by providing the key to the solution to their process.

As I explained, previously there were few answers and solid tools for love, we felt confused, because many are the lucky ones who, when they are of mature age, want to meet someone and it turns out to be their forever or the great love of their life, really very lucky people, in a nutshell true love since there are many who have been looking for someone who understands and understands them for a long time, thus giving everything of themselves in relationships that last up to a certain limit for that reason I want to inform you of a topic that we all should know what falling in love is, it is a word that many misunderstand, much less take the time to truly know what it means and how it affects our lives, in certain relationships. Falling in love is a stage that many confuse with love, it should be clarified that both are very similar emotions but nevertheless different, when you love someone you love because you know them deeply and it is even inevitable not to love and accept them with their positive and negative aspects. Falling in love, on the other hand, is the initial state, or in a few words, the path or highway that is taken to consolidate the feeling of love, it is the specific moment where people do not yet know each other thoroughly but nevertheless feel the need to do so, for For this, the only way to call a relationship with love is having passed and overcome a period where, apart from knowing what is beautiful, what is superficial, you have taken the time to get to know that person thoroughly, giving steps to emotions that are a little more moderate than those they feel at the beginning of relationships in the stage of falling in love.

As I said falling in love, the initial stage of any relationship, is one that is plagued by numerous sensations or unbridled feelings where our mind releases a series of substances commonly called or called the biochemistry of love, since at the precise moment that we meet someone who, due to his physique or his way of thinking and calls our attention, our body automatically begins to secrete serotonin, which is known as the hormone of happiness, and we can even reach levels such as feeling euphoria, here the most The interesting thing is that the brain gets used to these levels until they reach a new normality with respect to their feelings for that person, it is at that moment where we will realize if love exists, if said infatuation truly transformed and gave way to love, since they are somewhat normal levels but it is the crucial stage of any relationship is where they show if they are forever or if their relationship had a date d e expiration and both learned something from each other in their time, nothing is lost even in those moments because while their love or infatuation lasted they were moments of happiness, of course love is something mutual, where both create a bond that unites them, where it is understood that although they have different things, both made the decision to share their lives, mutually collaborating in the happiness of both, loving freely without ties or false expectations.

The initial stage that gives way to love is basically plagued by thinking too much about said person, it is something inevitable in the human being, because he is a person who totally captures our attention, as well as it is difficult to avoid the feeling of wanting to have physical contact with the person thus reaching intimacy, to give the other a piece of his soul, another great characteristic of this stage is that we fear rejection, it is inevitable not to do it since it is a stage where we want the object of our desires and longings feel the same as us also put the same effort that you are putting into the relationship, another very frequent in the majority is the forgetfulness love makes certain daily chores be overlooked. The saddest thing is that it is a stage that has an expiration date, of course, not all couples can be compared because not all of them go through the same process or the same, we are all different, therefore each process is unique and irreverent, and it can last for months. or maybe years, but if it lasts a short time or lasts a lifetime, enjoy it to the fullest, they are experiences that we must experience and live before the right person arrives and if instead you did not have to do much and you already have your love, value it because It is very difficult to find someone who loved you and accepts you as you are.

Tell me how you lived the stage of falling in love, did it become love? In any case, any experience is enriching.

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