Hello my read.cash fam! How are you today? I hope you are all fine despite of the very hot weather in the Philippines. And because its too hot outside, here I am in my room chillin and writing my article. My topic is about respect again, and without further ado let me start to do this.

Disrespected because of looks

Have you experience that someone disrespected you because of your attire? Did you get bad treatment because you are wearing simple clothes and not an expensive one? It always happen in shopping mall, real state establishment and jewelry store. They will look at you from head to toe and examine yourself if you can afford it or not.

This topic came in my mind because I saw a post in one social media about a sales agent disrespected the customer because of their attire. A couple came wearing a shirt,faded short and slippers to find a unit to buy. Two sales agent, a girl and a boy talk to them. This boy don't want to entertain them because of their attire. Then another couple entered, they look like rich because they are wearing jewelries and signature clothes. The boy entertained them first while the girl entertained the simple couple. You know what happened? The simple couple bought a unit and the look like rich couple didn't. The boy got shy because of what he did, and the nice girl got sales and he didn't.

Being judgemental is our toxic attitude that we need to remove in ourselves. Does clothes or attires are the basis to know if the one person is rich or poor? If the one person can afford to buy or not? Is it a crime to wear simple and comfortable clothes when you are buying expensive things? It happened once to me, I went to a jewelry store because I want to buy a watch as a gift to my mother because it's her birthday. I was in my boarding house that time, my friend and I wearing short, shirt and slippers or what we called "pambahay", went to a jewelry store. We don't even have a bag. Just wallet and card only to buy. When we are in the stall and we are looking what I want to buy, the two salesladies always following us. I can see in their eyes that they are watching us because they thought we are shoplifter. My friend realized that also. My friend pull me and said let's go to another shop. They look at you like you are a thief and can't afford to buy. What kind of mindset is that?

I've known someone who are rich but still simple in terms of looks. Actually they are my cousins in my mother side. They are belong to a millionaire family but if you don't really know them, you will not tell that they are rich based on attire. They are all simple, from father and to their kids.

Being rich is a state of mind, you don't need expensive and signature clothes just to please the eyes of anyone and get validation from other people. Flaunting material things does not always imply that you are rich, its the attitude that you bring anywhere you go is enough to show that you got class and etiquette. Those who are successful in life are those who have discipline and respect.

Don't judge a book by its cover. And please don't judge a book or someone when you are not even a judge. You don't have a license and right to judge.

Every single person on the planet has a story. Don't judge people before you truly know them. The truth might surprise you....

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DON'T BE JUDGEMENTAL
81st article of mhy09
April 21, 2022

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