The ego is a kind of ego about oneself. For example,
1. I don't care.
2. I don't feel like anyone else.
3. I can only do this.
4. The way I have struggled in life, I don't think anyone can.
5. Who cares, I pay little attention.
. I don't eat or drink.
. Who knows what Kaddur, I know everything.
. If I don't go to the office one day, I have doubts whether I will stay in the office or not.
9. Wait, wait, listen to me first.
10. I know long ago, (not guessing) that this will happen.
This is that with Amir, word for word, it can be called ego or self-consciousness.
There is no easy way to reduce ego. By reviewing the results of the ego, if able to analyze, perhaps, the ego can be reduced.
Igor has doubts about the benefits. Because, there is a big difference between self-confidence and self-esteem.
Disadvantages?
Humility can lead to conflict with ego. Therefore, except for oneself, for others, it is not likely to be so harmful.
The ego can also cause various kinds of dangers.
The one that was, the boss of our office. The awful ego can be called his or egoistic.
In words, in words, only "I don't care" at the tip of his lips. Let us carefully nurture and observe his ego. He is also very satisfied.
In the meantime, an accident.
One afternoon in the office, the phone rang in the boss's chambers. At that time there was no mobile, that black land phone.
We can hear from outside, the boss is talking in a very angry voice.
Suddenly, we heard the boss shout, "I don't care."
Stopped talking on the phone.
After a while I heard the cring, cring sound again in the boss's chamber.
No, it is understood now, the boss is talking on the phone, mumbling, we are standing outside the boss's chamber listening to the ear, "I do not understand, I do not understand the throat at all. What will happen to me now"?
After a while, two or three of us entered the boss's chamber under the pretext of work.
I entered and saw him sitting on the table with his hands on his elbows, his face covered with his hands.
Are we, humbly, saying, "Sir, is there a problem? Is the body not feeling well? Are you upset?"
He said, "Hey, don't say that, brother, there has been a great defeat. I didn't understand what I was talking about when I was angry at that time ...", and fell silent.
Curious, we said, "Where was the phone coming from, sir"?
He,
"Head office, hey, I talk all the time. I was a little disturbed about other family matters today. I think I was talking to the secretary. But later, the secretary called me and said, Was ".
We said, "Sir, you don't understand."
"I understand, brother, the newcomer is coming to Taine (he's the boss's boss)."
Let's say, within twenty-four hours, "I don't care" care is arranged. The transfer order came. Absolutely, transfer to a place devoid of Pandavas.
Sadly, the boss left us, in a new place. When it comes to employment, not only the place of choice, food, medicine, communication system, various problems everywhere.
When the boss left, we were very upset.
A few days later from the office, we called the boss,
"Sir, you have gone to visit us, we don't like it, how are you, sir? You can't take your family with you, how can you eat?"
He couldn't take his family with him.
His answer,
"Hey brother, I don't think anyone in the world can do where I'm working. I have the power, they've transferred me, Karuk Ga, Butt, I don't care, at all."
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