I have always wondered why some people scream instead of talking.
These people use their voice as a form of expression to intimidate or express anger.
Yes, because anger is the main driving force behind the screams, which are, among other things, a means of poor control.
So raising your voice is only an indication of emotional instability.
We shout to show ourselves stronger than we are and to dominate the situation. However, we only show that we do not have enough control, not even over ourselves.
Screams attack and upset those who receive them, but at the same time they subtract strength and reason from the speech of those who use them.
I know that it happens to everyone, sooner or later, to be confronted with an irritable person and we are unable to maintain control.
It is a real challenge, especially when this person is our boss, colleague or partner.
The test is not to allow the other person to make us lose patience, and it is not at all easy.
This is a difficult situation to control.
The screams are offensive and make us easily alterable.
To ask the interlocutor not to shout, the secret is to learn to react in the correct way. Keep calm by using a calm and contradictory discussion and try to lower the tone of the discussion.
Why are we shouting then?
To defend ourselves: the threat can be real or imaginary, many times it exists only in our insecurity.
By habit: those who have been brought up to shout normally internalize this mode of communication. When upset or frustrated, he raises his voice to express disappointment or malaise.
Let us remember that shouting brings nothing to the word and although raising one's voice is a great temptation, it is a mistake.
By Kork75!
