Our life is always the way we treat ourselves.It would be like hell if we treat it badly/live in the past and it would be heaven if we love ourselves.
Many people spend their life at the mercy of circumstances,at the mercy of people,at the mercy of what happened to them,not living in the present because they are stuck in the prison of their past.
In Most people's life their past is the reason of their destruction.Somebody has experienced something bad in past and they start their life living in it ,being stressed all the time and also have fears related to this in future.Most people will be thinking that this article will be about pasts relationship.including this many things in our past affects our present.
1.When Someone Cheated You
You have been in a relationship for a long time and then you come to know that the other person was cheating you,That breaks from inside.You then either try to take revenge or try to suicide.
Do you want to live with a wrong person?so why are you crying for that person.The reality of that person came to you because God wanted to save you from further destruction by living with that person.
The best way to take revenge from that person is to focus on your goals and for God sake not allow that person to come back in your life.One who did you wrong once will always do you wrong.If you will live in the victim story and hate they will win ,don't let them win.you are strong enough to let it go.
2. When someone did you Wrong
People do wrong in a lot of ways ,by getting the thing that was your right,by trying to create hurdles in your life and by killing someone you loved.
If you can do something legally then do it as in third case you can do something legally.But in other cases the only way to take revenge from them is to struggle,struggle for your rights,struggle for the things better than they stole from you.One day will surely come when you will be at a higher level than them and they will be wishing for the things you have.This will is your success.so struggle for it.
3. When Your Beloved Dies
This is the pain that seems to never heel,life seems to be ended.When someone beloved dies,the first thing is that we can't believe it.What will be do without them?how will be live without them that are the thoughts that come to our mind at that time.
Time Heels Everything. We have potential to bear everything.Just give yourself time and everything will be fine one day.The one who has gone will never come back the only thing we can do is to pray for them and live our life betterly so that they will be Happy by seeing us in good situations.
4. When You Can't Achieve Something
We were struggling hard for something but we can't achieve it.This may be the matter of getting a job,good grades or love means we loved someone but we can't have them in our life.
I would recommend you to just keep in mind the one thing that what God do is always good for us.If he has not given us something that will not be good for us.Now most of people will thing that how can be it bad.Bad means that if somehow after a long time that thing goes away fro our life due to some incident then what could we do? nothing Na.So stop thinking about this a always have hope for good and work even harder than before.
5. Regret of Something
If I would not have did that so that will no had happened in my life.If I had made the effort that time I would have achieved that thing in my life etc.There is nobody who didn't has regrets but some regrets are so big for us that they control our life.
Your past is gone.It does not matter what happened in past harsh cruel or unjust whatever the case, reliving the events will never do you any good , the only way to live happily is to let it go!!
Go and Motivate yourself ,
Good Morning to All,