1. It is okay to cut ties with some people in your life who are only causing you so much pain. It is hard to let go, but you should not compromise your peace of mind and your mental health. The moment that you finally let go, that is when you will be in control of your happiness again.
2. Self-love is important. You have to prioritise yourself and your happiness. For so long, you have been constantly giving to other people, so now is just fair enough to give back to yourself. It is the perfect time to finally stop dwelling on things that are constantly hurting you. You only deserve all the happiness, love and joy this world could offer.
3. Your mental health is important. You need a breather and you have to pamper yourself. Go ahead and travel by yourself. By travelling alone, that is when you will discover more about yourself.
4. Some people are not really your friends. Some will only be there during your sunny days, but nowhere to be found when you are wallowing in pain and misery. The harsh truth is, sometimes what you have is yourself. You have to be strong because you have no choice. You have to be brave because there are still so many good things in store for you.
5. Stop chasing people because it is never worth it. You will never be enough for people who fail to see your worth. Don't question your worth because you are so damn worth it since the beginning. Don't force love and connection. Don't be so desperate to be with someone. You would rather chase your dreams instead.
6. Follow your dream and pour your heart and soul into it. Some people may laugh at you for dreaming big, but you have to keep going. Don't mind their hurtful opinions, you know yourself better than anyone so they do not matter. Keep moving and someday, you will look back and you'll be glad that you did not give up.
7. You are not a mess, but rather a work in progress. Your existence matters. You may fail at some point but always remember that you are always bound for great things. You might feel so unsuccessful right now, but please stop comparing your journey with anyone. You have a different journey to take. Trust the process always.
8. Your scars and imperfections do not make you any less of a human being. They are proofs of the countless battles you endured and successfully won. You are amazing for who you are. Your positive aura and your uplifting spirit make you more beautiful.
9. Stop explaining yourself for people who are already bound to misunderstand you. It is a waste of time trying to make them like you. So long as you are not stepping on anyone, continue doing your thing. You are not born to please everyone. Cherish instead those people who value your existence.
10. A friend can also break you heart. It is a different kind of hurt knowing that you had so many memories together, but you have to accept the fact that some relationships are not bound to last. Not closing any doors for reconciliation, but you have to give some space for healing. Only time can tell...
11. Your pain happens for a reason. You may not be able to comprehend the reason behind everything for now, but soon enough you will. Your pain will eventually make you stronger and better. Someday, your sufferings will be over and your heart will be in a better place. And you can finally flash a smile without a need to fake it.