Life is the name of liveliness with the heart
Be happy and spread happiness ... This is a formula that
will eliminate a lot of troubles in our society.
Sharing your goodness with others will make your life better We are all accustomed to meeting others, we are accustomed to talking to them, we share our sorrows, we laugh out loud and sing together.
Imagine for a second you were transposed into the karmic driven world of Earl. Jail is not necessary, it will be given a few options which will include mountains, forests, deserts, cities, villages ... everything. Wherever the heart desires to be imprisoned and spend twenty years in this imprisonment. In those 20 years, no one will be bothered by it, food and other necessities will be delivered by a robot and it will not have internet facility. what would? Doesn't that make you cringe? Will there be fear? Those who think like this will be asking for repentance in their heart? So is loneliness such a bad thing? If so, why? If not, why bother?
We are accustomed to meeting human beings. We have a habit of talking. We share sorrows. We laugh out loud, we sing together. With the help of others, they do what we call interactions. It's part of our routine. We don't feel it, but if many of the people around us disappear, if we go somewhere, we suddenly feel like we have lost something, we will find ourselves surrounded by unknown troubles. Then gradually new people fill the gap. This is the system of life. If some old people come out of the circle then new people come in their place. Sometimes it becomes a matter, sometimes it does not happen, but one thing is for sure, being human is necessary for all these things. The presence of people around completes this obligation of our interaction.
Each of our tasks requires two servants to complete. At least two people. We wake up in the morning, go to work. How would we feel if no one was there, our office, our shop, our school, our college, our factory were completely empty? We go to the hairdresser and the shop is empty, there are machines, there are scissors, there is a brush, there is a dryer but if there is no hairdresser then obviously it will not work. All the lights in the office are on, the computers are running, the AC is on but the phone does not ring and no colleague is sitting there. We are alone, how much work will be done? And if nothing else, every two hours you will remember when you have to drink tea? Arrived at the college. Whether it is related to reading or teaching, in both cases, will we do it when there will be no one for interaction? Who will give the lecture standing alone? Will you sit alone in the classroom and read?… So at every stage of life, at every step, With every breath, every moment is necessary for us. We are called social animals because we can neither work nor live without other human beings.
But we cannot live with other human beings. He's the desk clerk next door, how he reconnoiters everything, he's the office exchanger, he listens to every call, he's a college collaborator, I don't know what she thinks of herself, she speaks English with such a face. He is the owner of our factory, how he shakes everyone in the meeting every morning, he is Professor Sahib, how he is bent on proving everything is true, he is our coach, how to make his whole life like a successful story. Explains All these cycles are going on in our brain. We want to talk, but we can't stand others. And these are just ordinary examples. Gossip, fights, riots, riots, murders and shootings ... these are just different forms of dissent. A man alone cannot do all this. All of them must have at least two human beings. Is mailing the root of all mischief? Absolutely not.
Matching makes life comfortable, but for that we have to make sacrifices. We need to know that everything in this world is not happening by our will and will never happen. Even if we are born in the United States and become president there, not everything will be according to our will.
We have to make sacrifices. A minor sacrifice. You have to get out of your self and start thinking about others. This means that we should include the benefit of all in whatever we think of for our own benefit. Let's start thinking good for everyone, because living with everyone is with everyone and this is a purely personal purpose. Even in his own interest, but if we think that he is a collegiate, he speaks bad English then it is his habit, he must like it, why should he change his habit for us? Once this thought is given, it will gradually calm down. The factory owner is forced to shake, otherwise the work capacity will be reduced.
A friend of mine, Professor Sahib, is a narcissist, he can't change, he's so happy, why should we bother? That's the decent thing to do, and it should end there. So when we have these things fixed in our minds and it will be decided that the teacher, from today, the tension will stop, from that day we will have time to think very differently.
This day will not come suddenly, nor will it be for everyone. If that happened then everyone would be a guardian. These are simple things, from childhood we are taught all these difficult words, twists and turns, but there is a lack of a basic lesson in our curriculum. The lesson that summarizes all this. "In order to be human, human beings have to be considered human." They will have to adopt all the strengths and weaknesses, forget their mistakes and attitudes and extend the hand of friendship and without any hesitation, the hand of friendship will continue to grow towards them.
Well, what would we be able to think in a time that would be so different? The wrath of God, that is, when you do not think badly of anyone, what will you think? All that time we will rediscover ourselves. We will remember the taste of good food, we will smell flowers, we will want to take a half hour walk, we will start liking any weather Yes, we will not be angry with the haraam eater who forgot to put his finger on the bull.
When the mind is positive, it feels very light, the servant has a fresh feeling, everything looks good. Negative thinking is harmful. As the importance of this thought diminishes, life will become calmer and you will feel that "life is beautiful".
We humans are accustomed to it. We have a habit of talking. We share sorrows. We laugh out loud. We sing together With the help of other people, we do what we call interactions. It's part of our routine. We don't feel it, but many people around us, if they disappear, if we go somewhere, we realize that nothing happens at once, be happy and spread happiness. Will end automatically in our society. Every human being in the world strives hard for happiness. Some find happiness in helping others, while others find happiness in wealth and possessions, assuming that mankind finds happiness in various things. But we must see to it that our path to happiness is not broken by breaking anyone's heart. For example, if one's happiness is in gaining wealth, then it is fine, but wealth is true
These few angry coins may give you temporary happiness but not permanent. Because the sigh that comes from the heart of this poor person will ruin your whole being. In the same way, when we step on the threshold of youth, we seek happiness in all kinds of abominable things, which are actually following the nafs. Is. One of them is to annoy the other in the name of a joke. Usually a group of friends picks someone and hurts them a lot and it is called a joke which is actually Not a joke, it's heartbreaking. Because humor is that which does not offend the heart. It is not a joke to break someone's heart, it is called heartache.
By making fun of someone in this way and showing our heart as blood and play, we ourselves become happy, but we cannot even guess what happens to the heart of the person who is being made fun of. Because if a rock is hit in a river, we can't estimate how deep the rock has gone. They also take action. Therefore, care should always be taken that our path to happiness does not pass through anyone's heart.
Allah Almighty has endowed human beings with different temperaments. Some have a hard temper and some have a soft temper. Some are irritable, some are calm. Similarly, endurance is different in humans. Some have more and some have less. He who has more endurance fits everywhere, and he who has less endurance has to face troubles. He mostly likes to be alone. People generally avoid discussing this topic and think it is bad which is wrong. Depression is just like any other illness which just happens to affect a lot of people. Many people suffer from depression but do not present their problem to anyone. If you find such a person, take special care of him, talk to him and help him to get out of it.
Every day many people lose their lives due to mental illness depression. We are all to blame for this. If we help such people, listen to them, try to put ointment on their pain, we can save a lot of lives from being lost. If we talk about real happiness, then they make others happy Because if you are causing a smile on someone's face, then you are truly a perfect person, whether it be through help, encouragement, service or in any way because One day we will learn the art of being happy with the happiness of others.
final conclusion
Never hurt anyone, never taunt anyone, always be happy and keep others happy.
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