Modern technology and education of children

There are positive as well as negative results from the use of different products Today the speed of technology is a big challenge, when we understand this thing it will be easy to understand the people and know their mental level.

Four-year-old boy "Tom" was hungry. He didn't get anything to eat for a long time. While walking around the house, he suddenly saw his mother's mobile phone on the co-dressing table. He picked up the mobile phone and opened a special app, where there were pictures of delicious things. His appetite increased. Hastily selected a few pictures and then put the mobile back in its place. Some time had passed when the house bell rang, the mother went out and saw that it was a McDonald's delivery boy. Raisa looked at the boy with uncomprehending eyes and said: "Ma'am, your order." "But I have not placed any order," Raisa replied. "The order has come from your number and location, please check." When Raisa saw her mobile phone, she got a shock. The order was indeed made from her number and the order was not a small one, but rather a huge one, that is 400 dollars. Raisa understood the situation, thanked the delivery boy and locked the package. When opened, it contained a variety of burgers, french fries, milkshakes, juice and some extra packets of ketchup.
Actually, Tom had seen his mother ordering food online many times and this thing was saved in his mind. Now when he felt hungry, there was nothing to eat and mother was also busy at home, he adopted this method. And soon plenty of food items reached the house. Raisa distributed the extra food among her neighbors to save it from going to waste and laughingly told them about her son's "achievement".
In today's era, there is no house that is devoid of technology devices. We are surrounded by these devices and there have been many incidents in which children have used technology despite their young age and this is a very interesting situation. Bani. To the extent of positive use or agreement, this thing is fine, but if it is examined from another aspect, it is also having major negative consequences.
It is a fact that technology has been included in our life and because of this, if our lifestyle has changed, on the other hand, children have not been safe from it. Today even a one-year-old child starts crying and laughing while looking at a mobile phone. He also drinks from the feeder when cartoons are playing in front of him. He has also taken to the touch screen and whether he realizes it or not, he touches the screen. That while playing games, they become completely indifferent to the surroundings and as per the routine, if they do not get mobile, they lift the whole house on their heads.

As parents, we have to recognize that today's generation is completely different from the older generation. The development of digital media has greatly accelerated the understanding and selection of things of today's children, which has greatly affected both. Feelings and their power decision. Due to living in the fictional world of social media, their real world feelings are getting weaker. So today they don't give as much importance to relationships as they do to social media friends. They also want to become rich overnight and therefore in a subtle way they enter the realm of materialism. They prefer to earn dollars than meet people and sit with family. Sitting in the same corner. Due to this, they are getting cut off from the society and their social circle has become non-existent.
The second thing is decision (choice). Today even a two-year-old child takes out and watches what he wants on YouTube, while on the other hand, there are games in which a tree grows in the ground by pressing a button. On the third button, it also bears fruits. Now it is actually the speed of technology which the new generation understands as the speed of life and then in the real world when things are not done so fast, they get irritated and get emotional shocks and cut off from society. .
The truth is that life is not that easy. It is a long journey in which a person has to be patient and endure many things. All things in nature are completed through a process and thanks to patience. Thanks to technology, today's child claims to be aware of everything, but the tragedy is that this claim is of a superficial nature, there is no depth in it, because it takes patience to understand things deeply, which is Today's generation does not have it.
So, how to model today's generation: This is a very delicate problem. The situation is like this, parents are standing at one end and the new generation is at the other end. There may be loss of gain. On the other hand, if the new generation is left open, there is still a possibility of going astray. So parents have to step with extreme caution and train the children with chains of love.
The first thing in terms of training is the home environment that is maintained by the parents. If the parents have patience and understanding, they do not suffer from emotional weakness, they do not lose their temper over trivial matters and they have complete faith in Allah. Then, these things gradually come down in the nature of children and they do not face difficulties in spite of thousands of dangers and challenges in the outside world.
Another important thing, self-understanding of parents: remember your childhood, what kind of emotions you went through, you also liked ice cream, you also cried for chocolate, you also fought with siblings, noise too. used to break things and try to sneak out of the house. Think about the occasions where it was really your fault and where the parent's weakness. If there was a misunderstanding on the spot and he took a step that was not right, then you should not repeat such a mistake in training your children. If your child makes a mistake, stop yourself from reacting immediately, think what should I do as a sensible person. Take it out of the situation and make a rational decision.
Third important thing, talk and listen to children: Unfortunately, today we are in touch with our 5000 Facebook friends but are not aware of each other at home. Always remember that your and There should not be a gap between the children. Have a conversation which will help you get to know their personality, their mood, tendencies and likes. will help them to fulfill.
Fourth thing, understanding children's feelings: This is very important. If your child is asking for something that is not right for him, don't reject him immediately. You should say, “Son! Do you want ice cream at this time, I know that you are very excited to eat ice cream.

I understand your sentiments and feelings. After that, you can make a deal with them that "even snakes die and sticks don't break", but if you immediately refuse to obey them, this is the thing. It creates a void in their personality, they may suffer from inferiority complex or become stubborn and try to get what they want at any cost and this method will definitely be harmful.
5th thing, Avoiding unnecessary harshness and cruelty: If parents adopt the method of killing, it means that they have some psychological weakness in themselves and they resort to Markashara to compensate for this deficiency. If yes, it means that you and your children are not on the same mental level. They may be fine for a while because of your strictness, but they will return to their original state whenever they are out of your sight. Another thing is that if there is a gap between you and the child, any other person can fill it with great ease. Then the child will learn what he teaches the child, will do what he tells him and will be what he thinks. The way that person will make up his mind. In short, your child will be out of your hands.
Sixth thing, unreasonable hopes and expectations from children: We also have to admit that not every child can top. Whenever the pressure of parents' expectations increases on children, they are forced to resort to escapism and for your information. It is submitted that today there is a public discussion about ice addiction in educational institutions that it also reduces stress and marks are also high. Remember that ice is a certain death. The people you and I see lying on the sidewalk are not from Mars, but if research is done, it will be known that a few months ago they were students of a college, university. will
Life is a game of shadows, a collection of bitter memories and a long race of stumbling and falling and getting back up again. There are not always successes, don't just instill dreams of success in your children, but also introduce them to failure. And tell them that failure in life will have to be faced, but this does not mean that life is over, but to fall down and get up again and move forward with a new dedication.