Fall Out Of Love

Good day to all of you guys. You know what, my dear readers? I used to not know the feeling of falling out of love. It's been a long time since I've been in a relationship. But this last relationship of mine is really the last. My wife cheated on me and left me heartbroken. I didn't look for anyone else. I just tried to support my only son alone. But our topic in this story is not me. And this is also the reason why I decided that the title of this story was FALL OUT OF LOVE.

Let's start the real story. But before I proceed, I want to give you a short introduction about my son. My son is a simple guy and a religious person, and a church altar server. He has had past three relationships. The first two were when he was still in college. And the last one is after college. They both have good careers. My son is a serious person when it comes to a relationship. He is also not a cheater because he doesn't like cheaters because of my experience. The flaw I can say about my son is that he is very jealous and conservative.

My son's most recent girlfriend became his live-in partner.  I didn't give too much of an intro to his two past girlfriends he had in college. It was not my son who broke up with them. I can tell that the relationship is not that serious yet. Maybe it's because they were too young at that time. With his recent ex-girlfriend, I'm getting ready for them to get married. I saw that they had a lot in common. But behind that, there is also something I don't know. They have been together under the same roof for almost three years. Living together like husband and wife. Sharing each other with all their expenses at home and supporting their own families.

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I thought they were really in a good situation because they spent so much time together under the same roof. My son works from 8am to 9pm most of the time. Sometimes it even reaches 10pm because of overtime. His girlfriend works as client support specialist. Most of the time assigned to other places because of her work. One day, while his girlfriend was working out of town, she ordered my son to look at her files on her old cell phone that was left in their apartment. While my son was looking for the files on the old phone, he found out that there was a Tinder application installed. For those who are not familiar with the Tinder app, it is a dating app. If you want to find a new acquaintance or to look for a girlfriend or boyfriend, that's the use of Tinder. Because of what my son saw, his jealousy came out again.

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He asked his girlfriend why she had a tinder app in her cp. She answered back, it was her brother's. I also doubted why the app was her brother's if the cp was her. But of course my son also did the same and didn't believe it either. But I told my son that I wish he would have accepted the reason so as not to end-up in a misunderstanding. So what my son did was that he also installed tinder on his phone. He did not use an alias. What is his real identity is also what he used on his new tinder account. It is said that many users have matched with him, so many users are also messaging him. But he didn't pay attention to those because his real goal was to find the tinder account of his girlfriend.

Someone asked him if he had a girlfriend. While we are talking, he told me that he didn't know why his answer was he is single. I told him that men are really like that, especially if the girl was just met online. Because I think if you answer yes, the lady will probably be offended. Maybe because the girl who asked if he had a girlfriend just wanted someone to talk to and was immediately rejected if he answered yes. The next thing that happened, the lady who asked if my son had a girlfriend turned out to be an acquaintance of his live-in partner. The girl sent her partner a screen shot of their convo.  Then, my son and his gf started fighting. Asking my son why he denied.

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I told his girlfriend on chat that my son is not a two-timer and no man will admit that he has a girlfriend to girls who ask questions whom even they don't know. Maybe my son had only been talking to the girl for a few minutes, and there was no flirting. I told my son's girlfriend that she must know my son better because they lived together under the same roof. So the end of the story, they broke up. And It was only then that I found out that their relationship was not as good as I expected. My son told me that usually when he comes home from work at night, he is not even offered to eat with his girlfriend. My son's girlfriend was often at a friend's house to drink alcohol. That my son doesn't want because he doesn't have any vices.

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I said that maybe his girlfriend is having a hard time because he is too strict. He said that he is not like that  because all that he wants is not to do gimmicks too often. In short my son gave up and left his girlfriend because no matter how much he apologized, she was not listening. After those heartaches, my son moved to another apartment and just focused on work. After sometimes, someone introduced my son to a beautiful girl on Facebook. She is also a cyclist, and they have same interests or hobbies. The girl wanted to meet my son in person and visit him at work. She also talked to me and introduced herself. They said they met and became boyfriend and girlfriend in just a short period of time, and of course I was surprised. But my son has been avoiding her. He told me not to talk to her anymore because he didn't want to have a new girlfriend yet. I told my son why? she looks kind and beautiful. My son's answer was, I don't know papa. It seems like I've fallen out of love. I don't think I'm ready yet. That's the reason why, at the age of 58, I only found out and thought that the same thing happened to me in the past. I didn't know the feeling of falling out of love. I realized that this was the moment when you didn't want to have a romantic relationship. You don't want to have a partner in life, and you are happy being single. Until next time guys. Sorry, I inserted myself into the ending of this story ahaha. Thank you for reading. I hope you like this content.