Love is probably the most feeling talked-about. In the crowds, in the stories, it is inevitable not to mention it. Some people say love is the best thing people can feel. Isn't the theme of love selling a lot of movies? Whether it be local or Hollywood, no month or year goes by without a romantic movie being released. Because people are fond of watching love stories or romantic movies. In a television series from morning till night is not losing a love story. Those love stories had marked with people. Do you familiar with the love story of Romeo and Juliet? I would not be surprised if you knew it already because it's the most popular love story in the world. So it's not surprising that love makes the world go round for some of us. Waking up, eating, sleeping, Love is what they have in mind. There are some fall love and not just their loved ones, the world revolves around them. they can still do other things they need to do. But some say that they have never experienced falling in love. If they feel it, they are the one who refuses it. If they feel it. Somehow, you will always think, we are the same people but does it matter if we are in love? What do you think?
Well, I think there are some different kinds of love. What I am referring to here is the love between two people.
There is some kind of love:
Infatuation- an idealistic feeling or based on fantasy only versus real experience.
Romantic love - a love given to a person, you feel passion, attraction, care, and respect.
Eros - a love that usually has sexual involvement.
Companionate love - a love for a friend who wants you to be with. This is also known as affectionate love, friendship-based love, or attachment.
Unconditional love - a love for a person no matter what happened. It's like "I offer my love freely without condition".
Conditional love - a love with rules.
But in my own opinion, love depends on the person who loves because people who love have their expression and feelings of love such as:
Love that is shown and felt - the type where you feel that someone loves you, whether you love him or not.
Love that is not shown but felt - this is what others call "non-showy" a loving person. You can show the person you love, that you love him, even if others don't see it. Isn't that what matters?
Love that is shown but not felt - Maybe love is deceptive. a person deceives his beloved and his lover deceives.
Love that is not shown and also not felt - the fourth kind of love that has passed. It may show and felt before, but later, it's gone.
They said love is like communication because communication doesn't become complete without an answer to the person who wants to communicate. In love, if the loving heart is not answered, it will be hurt. With this in mind we can see that the kind of love can also be divided into two:
Reciprocated love - when someone loves the person he loves.
Unrequited love - when you are just a friend or just an acquaintance or even without regard for the person you love (unlucky love). ouch!
When you think about it, there are other types of love that two people experience with each other. The types of love mentioned have other characteristics. There is taboo, there is legal. There has been developed for a long time, some are just fast (love at first sight). There is voluntary, there is also compulsory.
Generally, love is what we need because it gives your life meaning. It teaches you a lot of lessons that can help you in your life. Love can change you and your life to a better one. Sometimes, it may seem complicated but always remember that giving up is not an option. Love gives you a positive attitude and it makes you the best version of yourself. You could always give without loving, but you can never love without giving.
Love is different from one person to another.