A big Yes! this is a fundamental, indisputable truth that is often misinterpreted. We aren’t talking “best friends” here in the sense that they take you to coffee, celebrate your birthday, and chat with you at school pick up. Your biggest enemy has much more value to you than this.
Your biggest enemy will force you to face yourself in ways no one else can. Your battles with him are really battles with yourself because he makes it so your vulnerabilities are no longer ignorable. He points out all of your weaknesses, and to make it through the battle, you have to address them, which requires acknowledging them. These are all things you would not likely have done without having to face formidable opponents: your enemy, and ultimately, yourself.
Don’t run from confrontations with your worst enemy. They will turn into your biggest achievements.
YOUR BEST FRIEND KNOWS SO MUCH ABOUT YOU
When you are best friends, you share every single detail of each other's lives. Your friend may know all of your secrets which you don't want other’s to know - your crush, your boyfriend/girlfriend, your strength, your weakness and many other things.
When you both have a fight and decide not to talk to each other anymore, the person with weaker mind decides to take revenge on the other.
Firstly, your ex-bestie starts to reveal your secrets in order to embarrass you. He/She knows your weakness with which he/she decides to use it against you.
You will get hurt deeply. Your trust is broken. Everyone around you will judge you because of the reveal of embarrassing secrets. You will feel lonely. You will never trust anyone easily after that. This could go to an extent where you get depression. All because you broke up with your bestie.
A bestfriend who became your enemy can ruin your life more than anyone else can do. Or you will become stronger that what you are.
When you ignore the troubles caused by others in order to bring you down, you get the strength to defeat your worst enemy.
