Those two words is the key to have a healthy family.
After being pregnant, me and my partner decided to get married. We have to attend seminars as a requirement to have our wedding done. The topic is about responsibilities as a parent. Growing up in our community/country women tend to become a house wife after having a family even if you have a degree and men is the only provider. after the seminar I realized that having a family really is a shared responsibility not just women being at home and men at work but in every field of parenting.
As a wife, we also have to work and help our husbands in providing needs and wants of the family.
And to husbands, they also have to do chores and babysitting.
For us to have a healthy family we just have to have each other as a partner in everything to achieve our goals. We are now in an era where gender equality is a thing. All we have to do is to trust each other and have each others back.