We are an entity with our own life, our own capital. We are a living species that has the necessary problems of understanding and being understood by the universe, nature, animals, plants and the people with whom we create social life. We are in the middle of the maze mess. Using our minds and experiences, we must decode the beings, each of which is a hidden treasure. These codes and passwords are not far away, but in ourselves; in humans. The more we know our own codes, the easier we can decode others' codes. The way to this is in our own personal development. We must make the most of ourselves; because it's all for ourselves. Finding and decoding codes is a journey of excellence. This is just a journey. Endless, “okay, it's over!” This is a journey we cannot say. There is a quote by Brian Tracy that I love very much; You may have heard: “Perfection is a journey, not a destination.”
Sometimes life can be better with small touches. A beautiful word we hear makes lightning strikes in our minds. Our life is not complete, not finished; Our life is constantly under construction. There is always something to improve it. If there is a problem, there is also a cure. If there is bad, there is good, and if there is ugly, there is beautiful. The important thing is to be in continuous development. This is the nobility; To be in a better state than before.
However, human beings must make their own change. Knowing is not enough, you must do. Failure is acceptable, but not trying is unacceptable. Since our life is under construction, then you can use the following few practical tips to guide your self-improvement efforts:
1-) HAVE FAITH
Even though a person may seem like a strong being thanks to his mind, he always needs a friend to lean on and take shelter from. Our human friends can sometimes let us down. We are grateful to the true friends who do not leave us alone, especially in our bad days. However, that doesn't take long. We must believe in and be attached to such a Friend that it must be a friend who will take care of us even when everyone leaves us. This friend of ours supports us even though we don't believe him. In our most troubled and miserable situations, we have no one to take refuge but him. Wouldn't you like to have such a friend too? Don't we need a friend who can hear our hoarse voice and is omnipotent in solving all kinds of problems we may encounter in our helplessness, needs, troubles, diseases, troubles and calamities, in short, on the journey to perfection?
2-) READ, READ AGAIN! LEARN TO SPEED READ
Reading is the first thing to do for your personal development. To read is to admit that we do not know. He who claims to know does not need to learn or read. Pride and arrogance prevent him from reading. We should read not only books, but also life and nature in a figurative sense; so we have to think. We must read to think. To evolve, we must think.
3-) LEARN DIFFERENT LANGUAGES
Different languages mean different ways of thinking, different cultures and different beliefs. Every language is an indicator of a civilization that revealed it. Such a different effort will lead to serious changes in you. Your vision will shine even brighter.
4-) HAVE HOBBIES
Man was created with occupations. It must be a hobby. Some of these pursuits are essential skills for survival, which we call a "vocation". Others are the efforts we do with an amateur spirit and to satisfy our own psychological feelings. Hobbies are a reflection of human abilities. Engaging in a hobby gives people pleasure. It relaxes and relaxes. It makes people happy. Playing a musical instrument, dancing well or being a brain athlete can be an interesting and good alternative.
5-) START THE DAY EARLY
Successful people take full advantage of the beauties of the morning. Sunrise on a person is described as "laziness", especially in Anatolia. Life starts early. The blessing of the morning is an opportunity that cannot be missed. For those who have a purpose and a goal, the biggest enemy is the “bed”. So sleep. Of course, you should sleep as much as you need, but without missing the early hours of the morning…
6-) REVIEW YOUR HABITS
We should stay away from bad behavior that is likely to prevent us from achieving our goals. We see that some people who have made sensational events and are in high places in the world are defeated by their egos and are disgraced because of a very simple matter. Even when we see the act of smoking, which is the simplest habit of the people we love and admire, we do not like it. This situation actually teaches us a lesson; If you have bad habits that need to be changed, you need to get away from these habits with patience.
7-) AVOID NEGATIVE PEOPLE
Tell your friends and I'll tell you who you are. We are the average of the people around us. If they are negative people, criticizing everything, dissatisfied, just avoid them. Otherwise, they will probably compare you to themselves. Our advice is that good friends attract us to good and bad friends to evil. We must always be optimistic. Optimism is one of the prerequisites for growth.
8-) DON'T CLOSE TO THE PAST BUT TAKE A LESSON
"Don't say what I am, don't say what I will be". We may not be satisfied with our past. We may have suffered or suffered. Instead of getting stuck with them and destroying your inner motivation, he should learn from them. It is necessary to find the root causes and rethink the solutions. What were the sources of our mistakes? How did I analyze it? Where was my mistake? We must take our share of questions such as: This is a very important step for personal development.
9-) BE POSITIVE ABOUT PEOPLE
Society is like an orchard. On the same tree, on the same branch, there are strong fruits and rotten. The bruises fall to the ground early and mix into the soil there. The healthy ones are collected by people to fulfill their meaning and eaten with flavor. When we enter such a garden, we should focus not on the bruises on the ground, but on the healthy fruits above. Otherwise, you do not want to enter that garden. That would be a disgrace to solid fruit. People are like that too. You have to be with good people. While it is not our duty to see the faults of people unnecessarily or to blame them for their faults, it is not right to say such and such about them.
10-) KNOW YOUR WEAKNESSES, STRENGTHEN
Do your personal SWOT work to ensure your personal development; You should identify your weaknesses as well as your strengths. If the problem is obvious, it is easy to cure. If you know your weak points, you can strengthen them with the support of your strengths. The first step of personal development is to accept weak points as much as possible; that is to be humble.
11-) HAVE SYMBOLS THAT YOU TAKE EXAMPLE
There were symbolic personalities that we dreamed of as children and tried to emulate; These were the examples where we wanted more physical resemblance. As he grew up, he turned into personalities that we took as an example in terms of mental, scientific, academic and social dimensions instead of being physically similar. Think about these people you admire and their traits. Then come up with ideas about why you like them. For the most part, these people have traits that you don't have but actually want to have. Good examples can be imitated in personal development; but then you have to come up with your own style.
I wish you success…
