After so many years of being single, finally you met the ONE – the man of your dreams, your one true love. And though you met him on the unlikeliest of situations where you would find LOVE, still you knew that he is indeed the ONE. But apparently, he isn’t.
He was just there because he knew that you were so into him. You were head over heels in love with him and he grabbed that opportunity to his advantage. He had nobody during the time you met each other who could give him the attention and the love that he was seeking for, and you were there to give that all to him. And so, you became his transition boyfriend.
But you failed to see that, because all you see is him and his greatness. You were uemployed and he has a stable job. He is well-off and you are not. So he treats you out whenever you go on dates, and that made you feel special. But little did you know that because of all of the expenses, he was already feeling broke.
You gave in to all of his whims and eccentricities because that was the only thing you could do back then. Things that you were not used to doing, you did because of him, all because you feel that you love him. But he felt otherwise.
He started to notice that you were getting fat, and that you already developed man-boobs which he always made fun of. He began to spend time on other things and people instead of you, and he always compained about little things that you failed to do or stuff that your friends apparently did to him.
But then again, you still held on to that thread of hope that things will turn out for the better for both of you. You did all the best you can to make yourself the best person that you are capable of becoming. You landed on a job that you were dreaming of having for the longest time because you put all of your best efforts just to have it, and you have him to thank because he inspired you to be better. And you realized that having a job was the start to give back to him of all the dates that he paid for and gifts that he gave you, but you were no longer given the opportunity to do so.
He broke up with you, the night before your first monthsary. And after arranging for a fancy restaurant to be reserved for both of you on that special day where you will give him the good news as well of you landing your dream job, you ended up having dinner alone. Not only did he break the relationship off with you, he also left you broken.
But that should not be the end of it all for you. Life should still go on, and it really does. And with the help of your friends and family, you will find your self whole again. You are ready to take a chance on love again, and eventually meet someone who will still find you sexy regardless of the weight that you have gained and how big your man-boobs have become. Someone who will let you know that you are loved, not just by treating you out on dates nor showering you with gifts, but by his mere touch that sends tingles to your very being and his eyes that stare to your very soul.
He will enjoy your company even without sex. He will cuddle up with you during rainy days and nights, and both of you will enjoy movie marathons that you will both finish and end up discussing about before you go to sleep. You will wake up next to him as he lovingly gazes upon your eyes as you wake up and greets you good morning, and will kiss you passionately even if you have not brushed your teeth yet after waking up. He will be at your beck and call, not because he has to, but because he wants to. And he will be the best guy that you could ever have because as it turns out, HE IS THE ONE. And YOU ARE HIS ONE TOO.