Lavish—or foolish

In my community now… you better be a lavish spender or you’re not spending at all .. at least that’s what a lot of girls of nowadays think/feel …

this is gradually becoming a serious problem...maybe not obvious to some people yet.. yes! right from time immemorial, men have always had the tendency to strive just to please women..but if nothing is done about it now…when it dawns on a young man seriously lavishing to impress girls and even his friends without a standard investment Plan for his future..

Out here, some boys tend to work and toil hard, day and night ..and instead of buying and storing off some crypto and tokens for future interests..they spend every thing, down to their last penny on girls, who sooner or later runs out to the next big boy, capable of ‘lavish spending..

I see in events and parties, today…people spray (on the spot) money on women/girls more than they pay their workers at home or workplaces, 6 months salaries combined…a lot of times, maybe these people don’t sit down to analyze or think these things through; I always wonder

This trend now make some women push their boyfriends/lovers the extra length..not for basic needs anymore but to become lavish spenders so to impress their friends and not been mockery of … because of the 😎“doings” (as it is called….🙆🏽‍♂️) their friends’ boyfriends do… omo!!

“Well na them Sabi…make dem continue “doings”…good thing me I know about BCH🤝 And crypto in geNeral!!

Now back to lavishing … maybe it’s a good thing/lifestyle..🤔..for someone wealthy right ..? But then again ‘too much of some thing isn’t really good..Now for the average man trying to make ends meet…what to do..? When his babe/spouse is on one corner pressurizing him.. “It’s better not to start what you can’t finish” I always say…, There’s a difference between good/comfortable living and a lavish livestyle ; I love comfortable living myself.. ”who doesn’t like good things¿”
If your money can handle it (lavish) on the long run.. why not..but what happened to charity and all those needy out there ¿

But these girls be making my bros do things I tell you …there’s the few ones who still find genuine love and affection..while a whole lot more, rather be attracted, to lavish spenders..that’s the world that trends… ‘I wonder what is to become of the mothers of our boys’!

((:special shout-out to all the calm, caring, legit love driven women out there beside their men/spouse..supporting them and giving the right push ..you’re blessed and a chosen generation:))