Why people fall in love?

Spring has come? Yes, today 'love is flowing in the sky, intoxication is in the eyes / as if someone is calling back, spring has come.' The month of Falgun is spring. Spring makes the mind a lover. What a colorful touch shakes the mind. Spring sows the seeds of love deep in the mind. In Falgun, I met many aspiring people.

I know why the issues of love-love-relationship etc. come to the fore as soon as Falgun or spring comes. And the words of love will give a light touch to the human mind. It is difficult to find a person who has never fallen in love with anyone. Whether it is love before marriage, or love between husband and wife after marriage. The characteristic of human beings is that we all want to be loved, someone wants to see me in a special 'care'. We want to be someone 'special' in someone's life.

Spring awakens the feeling of love in the chest. At least the poets and writers have highlighted that much. In addition to spreading the fragrance of love, spring conveys the message of reunion. In such an attachment, there is no obstacle to hand over body and mind to a loved one. Only the cowardly soul utters 'Sweet spring has come to bring sweet reunion / Sweet reunion in sweet Malayasamire ratater.' Utla Baul also sings' Go to the spring air, go to the spring air, smell the flowers of a friend's house, come to my house. The flower garden of a friend's house, flowers of different colors, the smell of flowers fills the mind with joy (song of Shah Abdul Karim). ' Thus, when spring comes, the mind becomes uplifted. The old pain, the lost memory makes you want to run after it with love.

It is very difficult to say why people fall in love, fall in love or fall in love. According to some, love means madness. A feeling of being close to each other. Mutual fascination, interdependence, similarity, attraction. When their roots are so closely intertwined with each other that it is impossible to imagine that it is possible to separate. This feeling is love.

But love is not just a feeling of excitement. This is not the desire to meet. Or lying down it is not to imagine when the touch of the lover will touch the whole body. These are all signs of falling in love. Anyone who sees that can think that he is in love. Love overwhelms the mind. There is a kind of militancy in love. It is difficult to calculate when he will return, where he will be sitting in a seat on a bus, if he will get a seat next to him at a stop.   

People fall in love, love. This has been going on for ages. Many fall in love with more than one person again. In fact the burden of finding the bottom of the relationship. Even within a pure-neat relationship, darkness sometimes grows darker. The mind goes in another direction. Find another light there. Sometimes again, without darkness, the mind moves from one relationship to another. And that's where the guilt begins. Despite having a relationship with one person, many see injustice in love with another. Falling into conflict and suffering. But do not get rid of it.

In fact, the word relationship cannot be taken for granted. And so there is a tendency to be attracted to other relationships from within one relationship. The same goes for psychologists. This is not impossible. Because we often take love as a single taste. But the nature of love is also quite different and complex. As long as there is a stable relationship, someone else may like it. There is a tendency to get involved with that person as soon as you share that feeling.

According to psychologists, this tendency is triggered when one begins to love oneself more. Suppose someone is in a very satisfying place at work or physically. It is this comfort in life that stimulates his other emotions. Want to love yourself more. And so people who have the dignity of their own different feelings or sympathizers of different emotions want to get involved in a spiritual relationship with those who get it. It may seem disgusting to have a familiar relationship. But the movement of the human mind is so complex and multifaceted that it often happens.

Is it wrong? Nanamat society about this. Many do not accept this range of love, especially within certain social structures. Physical or mental polygamy is therefore not recognized. It is worth mentioning here that although it is logically possible to love two people at the same time, it is quite difficult emotionally. Especially in the case of the man on the opposite side. In many cases it is not possible to accept that one's partner loves another. From there the conflict started.

A famous psychologist says: In fact, one has to choose in life, either. That is the solution. Although there is no specific mathematical formula for this solution. But you have to ask yourself, which of the emotions or feelings you are engaging with other people for, is more important to you. Without which you are irrelevant. If you can fix it, it will not be difficult to choose a partner. Someone may satisfy your cultural affection, but he will stand by you even when you are seriously ill? Someone may be stunned by your physical beauty, but will he still be so fascinated by your 90's? Not just momentary fascination, but also far-reaching effects. In this way you can reach the right conclusion by thinking.

Everyone finds love. So it is tied to the natural instinct. But then again, why do people want to leave the bond of the relationship? But is there a suffocating environment behind the familiar relationship? Or do many people just want to get out of the relationship into the addiction of adventure?

In fact, as a social institution, many people accept marriage with any partner. But the dissatisfaction grows as the days go by. As a result of not knowing the partner properly, external knots fall, but the grooves of the mind do not match. And so if someone comes in the direction of life, with whom the mind responds to the wire, people want to get involved with him.

The various troubles of the world make many people tired from time to time. As the days go by, the responsibility increases in the life of the people. To get rid of this, married people reach out to new relationships. Many get involved in new relationships out of sheer desire. In this case, sex is the main thing. Physical attraction becomes the main thing. Addiction to adventure also creates many new relationships.

However, the communication of the mind is the main influence in the case of new relationships. Recognized relationships can also go well. But life is strange. Suddenly you meet someone in life with whom you have a lot in common. Maybe it's the same hobby or the same thing to like, or the impossible to match the taste. Or the shortcomings that some people feel in their own partner, they suddenly find in someone else. And as a result, many people find new relationships despite being in a relationship. The burden of finding the bottom of the mind. It is difficult to say who will be attracted to whom. The question is, is it possible to be happy at all by loving more than one person at a time? Or does it increase the complexity of life? Can it be humane to deprive someone and satisfy one's own happiness? Depending on the answer to this question, who, how much will we be involved with!

I end the article with a quote from Sreejith: 'Relationship is a bridge, it takes a mature mind to keep it alive. The first love may not have that consequence, but the zeal, the intensity, the fire that is in the first love, may come at that young age. The difference between picking flowers and watering a tree is the difference between a first love and a lasting relationship. '