For everyone in this world, success is an absolute desire. Everyone wants to be successful in every step of their life, in every task. However, it is not always possible to want it. For many, success is a golden deer that does not want to be easily caught. However, it should not be forgotten that the overall life of a person is only a combination of success and failure. In this small life we ​​sometimes succeed in various tasks, sometimes we fail. But the main goal of all of us should be to bring success through perseverance and hard work without giving up on failure. In most cases, the fear of failure engulfs us in such a way that we cannot free ourselves from that fear. As a result, an unknown fear works in our mind which hinders our work. So overcoming the fear of failure is much more important.
Ever since we learned to do something for the first time since childhood, neither the fear of failure nor the fear of failure worked very well in our minds. We stumbled over and over again while trying to crawl and learn to walk. But even then we came at just the right time and learned everything. The main reason behind this was that our minds were not afraid of failure then. Our ignorant minds would simply accept the failed effort and go down to the new endeavor to finish the unfinished work. But gradually as we got older, we learned to understand everything, the fear of failure engulfed our minds. As a result, we are constantly making more and more mistakes out of fear of making mistakes.
You have to try to overcome the fear yourself
That work can never be done well if you are afraid of the consequences. Negative thoughts revolving around the mind interfere with the normal flow of work. So, at the initial stage, you have to get rid of the fear in your mind. I can't, I don't have to get rid of these thoughts. With courage in mind, you must start a new venture. In different areas of life, whether it is study, job, business, we have to move forward by storing courage in our minds. There must be risk in the way of life. However, one's own identity cannot be harmed in any way for that risk. If you want to prove your worthiness, you have to take initiative yourself. If you are always positive in your work, it is able to play a significant role in reaching the peak of success.
Not in a hurry
A lot of times we are noticed to be in a hurry which is not desirable at all. Every job has its own set of rules and punctuality, which many fear is whether the job can be done in accordance with the overall rules and on time. Many are disturbed by these things which hinders his work. So you have to work with the joy and cheerfulness of your own mind by eliminating unnecessary thoughts about these.
Let change be enjoyable
Thoughts of change also constantly create unknown fears in our minds. In any new work environment or any new work, we have to go through a change without a doubt. That change is sometimes good for us, sometimes scary for us. However, in that case, if the fear of change enters our mind earlier, it hinders our normal work flow. An important step in achieving success is constantly changing oneself with the situation, changing one's dress or manner of speaking. These things must be taken care of.
It is not possible for many to find inspiration in their own work. Many a times in spite of our deep interest in any work, only in the absence of proper motivation do we prove laziness in work, slow down. As a result, we later failed. But we can only inspire ourselves if we keep in mind how satisfying the joy of success is.
The biggest challenge is to stand up
It is very important to overcome the fear of failure and have the courage to stand up against it. But only a handful of people can take up this challenge. In Amazon's conventional society, we have all come to applaud only the successful ones. I have spread the news of their success but very few people have given courage to those who have failed. I came to their side and inspired them. It is because of this entrenched social system that many are afraid to face failure, resulting in stagnation in any endeavor. Fear of failure discourages us from doing something great or trying to do something. That unknown fear spreads a fear in our minds at every level of work which hinders the speed of our work and as a result our stream of good work is ruined. But we have to keep in mind that being reluctant to do something for fear of failure is by no means the solution to the problem but can complicate the overall situation. So you have to be self-confident to deal with it without wrapping yourself up for fear of failure.
There is no substitute for overcoming the initial hurdle
The main reason for mental agitation is to think unnecessarily about the success or failure of any work. So, first of all, if you are trapped in this uncertainty, you must get out of it. When we decide to do something, none of us know what the end result will be. It all depends on our work. Therefore, it cannot be allowed to have any negative effect on the work that is currently behind for that unknown unintended consequence.
In many cases we also have some mistakes or certain weaknesses in ourselves which prevent us from progressing in our work. No human is 100% efficient.
One of the most important elements of success is confidence. The present age is the age of competition and so there is no alternative to being confident to succeed in this age. Strong self-confidence enhances personality sharpness. Again, lack of self-confidence can cause personality to fade. Keep in mind that overconfidence can create a negative attitude about you in the minds of others. So it is wise not to be overconfident.
Confidence is to build yourself. It cannot be borrowed from others. No one in the world makes anyone confident. Maybe your friends, relatives or well-wishers will help you to be confident, inspire but you will never be able to build 100% confidence unless you are confident in yourself. Confidence cannot be achieved overnight. You can become confident by practicing certain habits every day. Let's learn how to be confident.
It is our nature to think about what others are thinking without giving importance to our own self-confidence. That's why it becomes almost impossible to practice some good things in life and walk the path of success. Remember, confidence is very important to reach the highest peak of success. Suppose you start a new business. Whether it is small or big. After starting a business, if you can keep the business, how compatible the business is with that environment and communication system, what others think about your business, whether they are thinking of something bad, etc., where is the time to focus on business improvement? Forget what others think of you, of your work. Others are not very important in your life. Unnecessary worries are enough to make your hair grow.
Suppose you want to participate in a recitation competition. You have come with proper preparation but before you get on the stage, various fears, doubts are working inside you and what others are thinking, whether those sitting in the audience will think anything bad at all, etc. Thousands of unreasonable questions have settled in your head. Make sure your performance will be the worst. In this case, your own self-confidence can overcome all fears.
2) Find out your strengths and weaknesses
People know best their own news, errors and omissions. Find out your own weaknesses and strengths. Always be honest with yourself, at least to your conscience. Take things in stride and try not focus too much on the strengths. Don't reveal your weaknesses to others because people like to sprinkle salt on their wounds.