Do you ever wish you just never met someone? Not because you didn't have good memories,but because things would have just been easier that way?

That's one way of thinking I guess. But that pain is only there as long as you allow it to be, that's a loss of someone you met and loved. Now true pain of loosing someone is loosing your child, that pain never goes away. The people you meet and interact with in whatever way change you and make you the person you are and you have to choose to let that pain go. Find the good from the situation and use it to move forward, you and you alone can stop that pain. I know on both of these things I am talking about and once you learn how to get past it and use the good life .

Yes because of the pain you feel when you think about them and know you cannot have them.Its just an unnecessary feeling.