Don't commit suicide out of frustration

Most suicides are victims of psychological abuse. When dreams turn into nightmares after enduring the whip of mental torture for a long time, it seems meaningless to him to survive. And then the man stepped towards suicide. No one commits suicide in one day. What is the benefit of surviving in a way that has been accumulated in the mind for a long time; He is better if he dies. People commit suicide for different reasons. Some in love, some in alienation, some in unemployment, some or not being established. Again, someone committed rape and committed suicide. Whatever the type of cause, the main issue here is frustration and emotional breakdown. A few days ago, a student of the Department of Genetic Engineering and Biotechnology of Shahjalal University of Science and Technology in Sylhet committed suicide. Most of the suicides were due to mental torture. When dreams turn into nightmares after enduring the whip of mental torture for a long time, it seems meaningless to him to survive. And then the man stepped towards suicide. No one commits suicide in one day.Some in love, some in alienation, some in unemployment, some or not being established. Again, someone committed rape and committed suicide. Whatever the type of cause, the main issue here is frustration and emotional breakdown. A few days ago, a student of the Department of Genetic Engineering and Biotechnology of Shahjalal University of Science and Technology in Sylhet committed suicide; Because his dream of becoming a teacher was shattered because of his teachers. Despite being a meritorious student, he could not become a teacher just by being a victim of politics. He could not accept the matter. So he committed suicide in hardship and despair. The question is why he has to be a teacher? Not all dreams will come true in life. He could have gone abroad if he wanted. In fact, his thoughts revolved in a circle. He could not get out of that circle.

We know Aritari; This student of Vikarunnisa School could not accept the insult of her parents by the teacher. So committed suicide. Did the teachers do such an insult that they have to commit suicide? And school is not one. Yes, some years might have been wasted; Relatives and neighbors had to listen to harsh words; This is it. Model Jacqueline Mithila committed suicide a long time ago. Model and actress Risila committed suicide. Zahin Ahmed, the eldest son of Manam Ahmed, the keyboardist of Miles Band, one of the country's music directors, also committed suicide. Jahin himself was one of the band mechanics of this generation. Two days ago, a doctor of Mostafa Morshed Akash Chittagong Medical College Hospital committed suicide. Akash committed suicide by accusing his wife of adultery. Lots of such examples can be given. Many commit suicide not only in the country but also abroad.

Why do educated people? Why would they be so easily disappointed? In fact, it depends on the mentality; Not on education. Not everyone can easily accept injury or suffering. Those who have a strong mind, they adapt easily. Those who are mentally weak cannot do that. Akash was brilliant. Talent never fails; Somehow it works. But his will to live was dead. And this willpower to survive is the most important. You may think that no one in your life has suffered so much. This is what you think, it's your fault. All people suffer, suffer. That pain is hidden deep in the mind. You feel like you are the saddest person in the world because you don't see his suffering. In fact, there is no one who has not lived a life of suffering.

I say, life is not complicated. Think simple. Complicated if you think complex. Think easy, look easy. There will come a time in your life when what you thought might happen will happen. You can see that the person you trust the most is stabbing you in the chest. A situation you may not have imagined. Stopped. You may then feel that life is meaningless. What is the benefit of keeping this life? But think about it, will anything change when you die? Will not Get rid of your frustration with life. You see around you, what a beautiful life others are going through with extreme grief and despair. Then why can't you? Ask yourself this question.

It turned out that the one you helped the most was the one who did the most damage to you. You wanted to get up, he pulled from behind. People around you will catch your mistake, will be jealous, so what? Life is yours. You will walk like you. In other words, nothing really comes and goes. Life means learning to live by fighting. This life, it will not come back? Then why not live? Because of grief-frustration-deprivation? Are there people whose way of life is very easy? No no So if someone cheats or deprives you, don't despair, turn around. If you get in trouble, fight by capitalizing on that trouble. You have to fight yourself. Life is yours, so no one else will come and fight.Nowadays the tendency to commit suicide has increased a lot. People are running after sociality, surroundings, money, love, fame etc. I want, I just want. And man is losing the joys of his life by trying to catch them; Happiness. To enjoy life, you need to know the path to happiness, not fame and fortune. If you know that way, you don't have to commit suicide anymore. Just think this life is mine; Happiness is mine. I will be like me, think like me; Think what others are happy with. You think there is no one else as miserable as you. Think about the people who are dying in the hospital?

Once you visit the ICU in the hospital, you will see that your pain will seem insignificant. Imagine those who are blind, cannot see any light of the world, but with the light of the mind, with energy, to see how they are trying to survive. The girl who changes hands every day also dreams of survival. What he tried to fight the battle of life. He stands up despite the insults and insults of the people. Is alive. Because he has nothing more beautiful to live with. An unemployed person becomes destitute for a job, loses his dreams and sinks into despair, but he also turns around at one point. Life is like a one way road. The front can only move forward; Can't go back. And going forward, you will get pain, you will get sorrow, many people will come to life, many will leave again. And there is no such thing as success in life. What's in it! There is so much to do in this life. You can arrange your dreams if you want.Once broken, dream again, break again, see again. You will see that you have succeeded once. If someone throws you, get up again. Will the neighbors scold? Will society condemn? Don't look back. Whatever society says. Confidence is very important in the way of life. People will regret two days when you die; Then forget. But if you can overcome the obstacles of society and move forward and be established, then this society, these people will remember you.