Optimism, and truly winning from the ground up
When I'm down, I enviously recall the name of O.J. Simpson (as a formerly admirable and presumably outstanding black man, and now a guy "who got away with it") pessimistically, but I quickly get over it and get good to myself so that I can function and live well where I am. I begin my piece by stating that reality clearly and directly. Who among us hasn't had gloomy outbursts and roadblocks that they have to overcome from the ground up from time to timََe? Naturally, it is an element of life and existence.Naturally, it is an element of life and existence. Individuals dreadful pessimistic lemons, on the other hand, must be turned into good optimistic lemonade, even by those who appear to have nothing going for them in a positive sense (yet).
For begin, we must be honest with ourselves; this is what I mean when I say "the bare bones and the ground up" in my title. It's difficult to accept our weaknesses, pessimism, and destructive tendencies, but we must. They must be acknowledged in order for us to truly address problems and develop inner strength and self-esteem. To be entirely present to ourselves, rationally, we must be fully present and realistic about our shortcomings and strengths. We are truly hunting in the dark for our light without those admissions.
What do you see when you turn on the light in your room? Do not flinch; instead, take a good or fantastic look in the mirror. When you do and don't get scared, insane, or odd, you're on your way to developing genuine, unwavering, and realistic inner strength and optimism. Faking it till you "make it" is also ineffective.
Being a completely healthy and genuine normal person with a heart can sometimes make you a superhero, if you know what I mean.
Everyone enjoys the sensation of winning, but many people dislike the sense of having to pay in full for it. It's a process, and it's an extraordinary one that both builds character and sometimes hurts. However, for those who truly follow through, it is well worth it in every manner that matters.
Ah, the thrills and sorrows of genuine optimism. Close your eyes, fearfully proceed forward, hoping that things do not blow up, mess up, or go wrong, and if you win, you take credit, but if things go wrong, you abandon ship and shift blame, as Sean McVay, the Los Angeles Rams football coach, appears to do on our local news programs in Los Angeles, California when they lose big games and take all credit when they win big games.
I'm saying own it all, failure and success, and you'll get somewhere genuine, no matter how difficult it may appear at times, because true progress is what it's all about. Realistically, if you're on a path of genuine growth without pretending, flinching, or fear, that's all you'll need. Everything else ignores the problem and misses the point. Death is said to be the penalty for sin or missing the mark. That is it. The price of making it is true life and existence lived fully and without apprehension. Everything is, in the end, a choice.